Chiling with weak men

[TheGambino]

Something really annoying happend.
A hb9 blonde my type stick her tongue out to me and flirted, kept on looking while talking with a guy. She was not into him. I could tell.

my “friend” noticed and Said she glanced 4-5 times at you.

anyway i waited a bit and kept it moving. Then i saw her with her friend (female) on a distance 5 minuten later and she stick her tongue out to me again while her friend was making out with a Guy.

I approached asked for her name but my annoying weak friend approached after me and started to bombard her with questions also. She was looking confused and I noticed her vibe change. I asked her where she went out while gettong anoyed by my friends behavior who was asking her the same questions. She replied but i saw her enthousiasme getting lower. I asked for her name and she Saïd “why does that matter” and i gave up.

they had to go the same way as us to the parking lot and her friend Saïd are you Guys follpwing us? I Saïd no were Parked Here also.

I knew she was interested but it faded.
Do u Guys think a really interested woman would still be open to talk or is this a real deal killer.

I gold my friend this is unacceptabe and a rule that you kever talk to a girl another man already approached or got iois from.

I do have to say this happened to me more Often and its so annoying as it feels like your friend is sabotaging you die jealoisy.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

What country do you live in that a girl sticking out her tongue at you is an IOI? In most places it's an indicator of difficulty/being a brat, not interest.

 

[TheGambino]

What country do you live in that a girl sticking out her tongue at you is an IOI? In most places it's an indicator of difficulty/being a brat, not interest.

netherlands. Felt like a ioi. Im not stupid, I would admit otherwise. It was playful teasing way with good energy not Bratty mean or spoiled

 

[zekko]

What country do you live in that a girl sticking out her tongue at you is an IOI? In most places it's an indicator of difficulty/being a brat, not interest.

From what I gathered from the story, she was sticking her tongue out as if to say she didn't like the guy she was talking to. Or that her friend was making out with. I could see that as being a invitation of sorts.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

netherlands. Felt like a ioi. Im not stupid, I would admit otherwise. It was playful teasing way with good energy not Bratty mean or spoiled

From what I gathered from the story, she was sticking her tongue out as if to say she didn't like the guy she was talking to. Or that her friend was making out with. I could see that as being a invitation of sorts.

Imo a highly interested woman woman would still be open to talking but your friend was sabotaging you. The combo of her mild interest and your "friend's" behavior ruined it. That being said, you still got to shoot your shot with a hb9.

Since this has been a recurring issue, maybe tell your wings "hey I'm going go for this girl here, what girl do you like?" before you make the approach, so it's clear you each pursue your own girl and they should not interfere. Or if he likes her too, you can work it out as to who gets to approach (obviously in this case it should be you since you were getting the IOI's). That way they can't say it was a misunderstanding or they were drunk, etc.

 

[OngBak]

I wouldn't chill with weak men.

And, didn't you notice? Your friend is manipulating you and the girl could probably tell, which in return tells much about you.

 

[Gamisch]

It's a double edged sword...

I have some weak friends and man do I recognise this scenario. Your friends will try to proof they also got some game, and perhaps they even might be sincerely enthusiastic about talking to an hb9 for once in a blue moon.

But the downside is that she will( rightfully so) look at you guys as an entity. Show me your friends and I tell you who you are...

The other side of the coin ?" Strong "friends will constantly make it a pissing contest and will try to sneak their way into the women you've pulled...

What's better? IDK...perhaps the best way to go about it is to somehow isolate a woman in such a situation.

 

[plumber]

friends... that's a wide term. big spectrum. those that snake you every chance. those that are afraid of you. those that you can depend on. those that want to see you get the girl. those that are selfish.

if you have real friends, some women will come to you when you are with them. the women will see it and like it. those real friends will make way for you. this is the smaller group of friends. and do not forget, you treat them the same way.. good.

many men have no such friends.

strong or weak; are they a friend IDK....

 

[BeExcellent]

Um. A man who acts like that is NOT your friend.

 

[TheGambino]

Um. A man who acts like that is NOT your friend.

Thanks I like you very much

 

[Bokanovsky]

From what I gathered from the story, she was sticking her tongue out as if to say she didn't like the guy she was talking to. Or that her friend was making out with. I could see that as being a invitation of sorts.

Maybe I'm getting old but to me, an adult person sticking his or her tongue out is a sign of mental retardation first and foremost. This kind of behaviour is normally associated with children ages 2 to 7.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Um. A man who acts like that is NOT your friend.

This ^^

 

[zekko]

Maybe I'm getting old but to me, an adult person sticking his or her tongue out is a sign of mental retardation first and foremost. This kind of behaviour is normally associated with children ages 2 to 7.

She's a girl hanging out in a bar, how much maturity do you expect from her? As a friend of mine used to say, "You don't find a rose in an ashtray".

 

[TheGambino]

cut off jealous phoney people. Case closed. Id rather go out alone.

 

[nicksaiz65]

cut off jealous phoney people. Case closed. Id rather go out alone.

The game community says you’d be better off with no wing at all than a sh*tty one. A bad wing is not neutral, they’re a net negative..

 

[TheGambino]

The game community says you’d be better off with no wing at all than a sh*tty one. A bad wing is not neutral, they’re a net negative..

Yep I do solo now. I go out alone connecting with women on my own.