You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Everything is persuasionBadAssMoFo said:you think you need to CONVINCE a woman to give you head?
jesus christ, you've got it wrong.
Be secure in yourself..confident.
Be a free spirit.
Kiss her, even if she doesn't want to be kissed and don't take her reaction seriously.
Women love pegging a man down to be a certain way...and guess what....
the ones they peg down are the losers.
Don't be that dude...be yourself...nobody is as one dimensional as women would like them to be...don't let her figure you out, and she'll be begging you to c*m in her mouth.
Also...
This is preached OVER and OVER again here..but it's the BEST insight on this entire site--
Don't ever lose sight of your values, beliefs, passions, etc. for ANYONE...I don't give a fu*k if cindy crawford is offering to suck you off if you change your mind about something.
I met this girl--hardcore christian. I'm agnostic. She asked about what i believed...and i told her...
we discussed this for a while..she started to get pissed off...but i never once tried to please her.
She lost her virginity to me that night.
I used no persuasion methods, did nothing to appease her, and she was begging me to put it inside of her.
Don't ever believe you need anyone's approval but your own. Pus*y is always going to be around..no matter where you go.
You're coolJohn_Galt said:Funny you ask this verysuave. I was with your mother last night, and the convo went like this:
me: You're really beautiful, I was expecting something else because your son(verysuave) told me you were an old hag out of her prime.
yourmom: That little bastard.
me: *whips out penis*, show me your skills.
The meaning behind this story, ****.
Thank you. I'm glad I have your approval and I'll use it to validate myself sexually.syncmaster said:You're cool
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.