"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Chicks you have seduced into giving you a bj + other thing
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
First - tell her that you don't judge and you prefer learning from each other. You each become better people through communication and enjoy each other more.
Second - It's not the act of giving the ******* that's special. it's the though behind it and the person giving it. It's wanting to please the other person and make the other person feel happy.
Also - no matter how bad she is, tell her she's GREAT the first time. It's positive reinforcement. She's more likely to do it again then, then you can teach her what you like.
Go down on her first and make sure she enjoys it. Caress her... make it special. She'll do the same for you.
Anyway - it's not so much "convincing" her to do it. It's an ideology, the more you give, the more you receive. You have to get her to want to do it.
there's more advanced stuff you can do, using NLP but i won't go into that here. Stuff like telling her she only gets 3 licks, etc... Works really well especially after you've gotten her to REALLY want to.
Cheers.
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In my experience if she knows that I would enjoy giving head to her, just go 69 and if she's into it she will go for it. By all means do not ask her or force her like some idiots do, she will either do it or not.
She will most likely be even more to it if you just got out of a shower/vice versa.
BadAssMoFo
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jesus christ, you've got it wrong.
Be secure in yourself..confident.
Be a free spirit.
Kiss her, even if she doesn't want to be kissed and don't take her reaction seriously.
Women love pegging a man down to be a certain way...and guess what....
the ones they peg down are the losers.
Don't be that dude...be yourself...nobody is as one dimensional as women would like them to be...don't let her figure you out, and she'll be begging you to c*m in her mouth.
Also...
This is preached OVER and OVER again here..but it's the BEST insight on this entire site--
Don't ever lose sight of your values, beliefs, passions, etc. for ANYONE...I don't give a fu*k if cindy crawford is offering to suck you off if you change your mind about something.
I met this girl--hardcore christian. I'm agnostic. She asked about what i believed...and i told her...
we discussed this for a while..she started to get pissed off...but i never once tried to please her.
She lost her virginity to me that night.
I used no persuasion methods, did nothing to appease her, and she was begging me to put it inside of her.
Don't ever believe you need anyone's approval but your own. Pus*y is always going to be around..no matter where you go.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
"suck me, baby"
"ok"
simple as that.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Everything is persuasionBadAssMoFo said:you think you need to CONVINCE a woman to give you head?
jesus christ, you've got it wrong.
Be secure in yourself..confident.
Be a free spirit.
Kiss her, even if she doesn't want to be kissed and don't take her reaction seriously.
Women love pegging a man down to be a certain way...and guess what....
the ones they peg down are the losers.
Don't be that dude...be yourself...nobody is as one dimensional as women would like them to be...don't let her figure you out, and she'll be begging you to c*m in her mouth.
Also...
This is preached OVER and OVER again here..but it's the BEST insight on this entire site--
Don't ever lose sight of your values, beliefs, passions, etc. for ANYONE...I don't give a fu*k if cindy crawford is offering to suck you off if you change your mind about something.
I met this girl--hardcore christian. I'm agnostic. She asked about what i believed...and i told her...
we discussed this for a while..she started to get pissed off...but i never once tried to please her.
She lost her virginity to me that night.
I used no persuasion methods, did nothing to appease her, and she was begging me to put it inside of her.
Don't ever believe you need anyone's approval but your own. Pus*y is always going to be around..no matter where you go.
BadAssMoFo
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my intent was to be myself.
the girl WAS persuaded to bang me, but it was not my goal.
me: You're really beautiful, I was expecting something else because your son(verysuave) told me you were an old hag out of her prime.
yourmom: That little bastard.
me: *whips out penis*, show me your skills.
The meaning behind this story, ****.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
You're coolJohn_Galt said:Funny you ask this verysuave. I was with your mother last night, and the convo went like this:
me: You're really beautiful, I was expecting something else because your son(verysuave) told me you were an old hag out of her prime.
yourmom: That little bastard.
me: *whips out penis*, show me your skills.
The meaning behind this story, ****.
Thank you. I'm glad I have your approval and I'll use it to validate myself sexually.syncmaster said:You're cool
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.