You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Everything is persuasionBadAssMoFo said:you think you need to CONVINCE a woman to give you head?
jesus christ, you've got it wrong.
Be secure in yourself..confident.
Be a free spirit.
Kiss her, even if she doesn't want to be kissed and don't take her reaction seriously.
Women love pegging a man down to be a certain way...and guess what....
the ones they peg down are the losers.
Don't be that dude...be yourself...nobody is as one dimensional as women would like them to be...don't let her figure you out, and she'll be begging you to c*m in her mouth.
Also...
This is preached OVER and OVER again here..but it's the BEST insight on this entire site--
Don't ever lose sight of your values, beliefs, passions, etc. for ANYONE...I don't give a fu*k if cindy crawford is offering to suck you off if you change your mind about something.
I met this girl--hardcore christian. I'm agnostic. She asked about what i believed...and i told her...
we discussed this for a while..she started to get pissed off...but i never once tried to please her.
She lost her virginity to me that night.
I used no persuasion methods, did nothing to appease her, and she was begging me to put it inside of her.
Don't ever believe you need anyone's approval but your own. Pus*y is always going to be around..no matter where you go.
You're coolJohn_Galt said:Funny you ask this verysuave. I was with your mother last night, and the convo went like this:
me: You're really beautiful, I was expecting something else because your son(verysuave) told me you were an old hag out of her prime.
yourmom: That little bastard.
me: *whips out penis*, show me your skills.
The meaning behind this story, ****.
Thank you. I'm glad I have your approval and I'll use it to validate myself sexually.syncmaster said:You're cool
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.