What is with this? I know several 20 something women who are HUGE fan girls to small time celebrities or musicians. They will drive halfway across the country to see these people. They blow up the celebrities social media with likes and shares and hearty face emojis. I am just confused and turned off by this.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Chicks who are fan girls
- Thread starter Redwolf
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes I get this part of it. I just think it's interesting some women don't do this and others are all about it.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I used to know this Japanese lady. Huge fan of the Sherlock Holmes show.
She took a trip to UK (from Japan) just so she could see the actor's house, and some of the filming locations.
She took a trip to UK (from Japan) just so she could see the actor's house, and some of the filming locations.
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Thanks for letting us into your JBW secret. Self-improvement and then you got the ladies after story on the other thread, ha!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.