What is with this? I know several 20 something women who are HUGE fan girls to small time celebrities or musicians. They will drive halfway across the country to see these people. They blow up the celebrities social media with likes and shares and hearty face emojis. I am just confused and turned off by this.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Chicks who are fan girls
- Thread starter Redwolf
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes I get this part of it. I just think it's interesting some women don't do this and others are all about it.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I used to know this Japanese lady. Huge fan of the Sherlock Holmes show.
She took a trip to UK (from Japan) just so she could see the actor's house, and some of the filming locations.
She took a trip to UK (from Japan) just so she could see the actor's house, and some of the filming locations.
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Thanks for letting us into your JBW secret. Self-improvement and then you got the ladies after story on the other thread, ha!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.