"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chicks touching you. Chest, Arms, etc.

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Not talking about a chick already dating you, you dated, ONS, etc. I'm talking chicks you know or meet that brush your arm, put their hand on your chest, or give you their hand to "steady" them while they adjust their heels etc.

If a chick you haven't dated, slept with, been seeing etc. makes it a habit of "innocently" touching you while talking, looking into your eyes etc. you might want to make a move and escalate or at least ask her out. She's touching you for a reason.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Building_and_Loan

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Well yeah. Girls don't "accidentally" touch you. They know what they're doing, and is probably the biggest IOI there is.
 

zekko

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It's either an IOI or she is an attention ho.
And I suppose some girls are just genuinely "touchy/feely" people.
 

El Payaso

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What zekko said. Most of them are just attention wh0res.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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icantgetlaid

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if you want to know whether a girl is attracted to you or not simply ask her out .. you're a man .. you don't need to sit around imagining whether or not someone is attracted to you
 
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