"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chicks touching you. Chest, Arms, etc.

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Not talking about a chick already dating you, you dated, ONS, etc. I'm talking chicks you know or meet that brush your arm, put their hand on your chest, or give you their hand to "steady" them while they adjust their heels etc.

If a chick you haven't dated, slept with, been seeing etc. makes it a habit of "innocently" touching you while talking, looking into your eyes etc. you might want to make a move and escalate or at least ask her out. She's touching you for a reason.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Building_and_Loan

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Well yeah. Girls don't "accidentally" touch you. They know what they're doing, and is probably the biggest IOI there is.
 

zekko

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It's either an IOI or she is an attention ho.
And I suppose some girls are just genuinely "touchy/feely" people.
 

El Payaso

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What zekko said. Most of them are just attention wh0res.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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icantgetlaid

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if you want to know whether a girl is attracted to you or not simply ask her out .. you're a man .. you don't need to sit around imagining whether or not someone is attracted to you
 
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