Chick's fiancé dies 3 weeks prior to wedding, so she gets a Beta-in-Waiting to be the groom - and on the same planned wedding date!

[MatureDJ]

If this doesn't prove the meme of male disposability, I don't know what would:

Groom-to-be reconsiders wedding after discovering fiancée’s ‘awful’ plan: ‘So many red flags’

This bride's behavior looked like a clear red flag to many.

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Before they met, his fiancée was engaged, but her partner died three weeks before the wedding. She rarely spoke of her ex, but when it came to picking a wedding date, the Reddit poster was horrified to learn she chose the same date as her previous ceremony.

“We didn’t have any issues until my fiancée and I started planning for our wedding,” he explained. “She suggested a specific date. And I had several reasons to not agree. One of them is that my mom is recovering from major surgery and since she’s my remaining family I want her there with me. My fiancee kept insisting and refused to compromise. But I was surprised when my brother-in-law contacted me saying his sister’s been sending out invitations with the date she picked. He then told me the reason his sister insisted on this specific date is because this was the exact date she and her late fiancé were going to get married. But it didn’t happen.”

He confronted his fiancée, but that didn’t seem to change much.

“She defended herself saying she didn’t think it’d matter if I knew this is the date when she and her late fiancé were getting married,” he wrote. “I said it matters to me.

She let everyone know and everyone [has] been criticizing my stance calling me ridiculous and inconsiderate to postpone for a pathetic reason like that.”

my opinion:

 

[firstbornunicorn]

imagine reading yahoo **** in 2021

 

[RangerMIke]

When a woman decides she wants to get married... she WILL get married, she might have to settle for a man she really doesn't want, but there are more than enough men lining up to be used.

I see this all the freaking time.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

If this doesn't prove the meme of male disposability, I don't know what would:

Groom-to-be reconsiders wedding after discovering fiancée’s ‘awful’ plan: ‘So many red flags’

This bride's behavior looked like a clear red flag to many.

www.yahoo.com

my opinion:

Almost every woman has a backup provider aka Beta buck. I believe is in Rollo's "Positive Masculinity" volume.

But I get you, it does feel dirty. Especially if it is that soon after the guy passing away. I mean, we could on for hours about the intergender dynamics but I mean not sure how anyone can disagree how distasteful, disrespectful, and much to be desired this is.

Modern Man Advice

 

[bat soup]

Tell her to go to plan C - the Bagel Boss guy. He's available.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

When a woman decides she wants to get married... she WILL get married, she might have to settle for a man she really doesn't want, but there are more than enough men lining up to be used.

I see this all the freaking time.

Which ironically makes her a bad marriage prospect because it's usually "my way or the highway".

 

[RangerMIke]

Which ironically makes her a bad marriage prospect because it's usually "my way or the highway".

Exactly! You NEVER want to be with a chick that is settling for you... EVER. If the chick isn't falling over herself to be with you and make you happy RIGHT FROM THE START.... You are headed down the road to misery. If you do not understand this TRUTH, you do not have enough experience with women or are living in a Hollywood created fantasy.