MatureDJ
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my opinion: She wanted to keep him in her orbiter stable, but he wasn't having any of that; with him, it was up or out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chick who spurned man is now upset that he has ghosted her
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
shes uglier than my azzzh0le
also maturedj these websites u quote have sheit articles that provide 0 value why r u wasting time reading them
it has no sources no nothing story could be made up and even if not then whats the point of writing about normal breakup?
also maturedj these websites u quote have sheit articles that provide 0 value why r u wasting time reading them
it has no sources no nothing story could be made up and even if not then whats the point of writing about normal breakup?
Her words:
"it took me some time to realise he was gone for good. But over the next few weeks, my emails, letters, even doorbell rings went unacknowledged."
This is proper no contact. The people in the no contact challenge board should take note
Her hamster wheel is still spinning (hence she wrote an article years later) even after marrying another dude. Her mind still goes back to the guy who dumped and ghosted her.
"it took me some time to realise he was gone for good. But over the next few weeks, my emails, letters, even doorbell rings went unacknowledged."
This is proper no contact. The people in the no contact challenge board should take note
Her hamster wheel is still spinning (hence she wrote an article years later) even after marrying another dude. Her mind still goes back to the guy who dumped and ghosted her.
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So she has nothing to offer in the relationship and is surpised he ghosted?
He made it clear what he wanted and she told him no fvcking way. Don't chicks cry constantly about men being honest about their feelings and not wanting us to play games? Well this guy did just that and it got him nowhere. Then when he decides to move on she's all upset because he decided to move on after being rejected. The narcissism is strong with this one.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
In all fairness, it’s taught on here to never share your feelings with a woman. But at the same time you’re supposed to make yourself clear about what you want. This guy handled it right though. I’ve ghosted many girls, one I knew for a year and i up and ghosted her with no warning. I woke up oneday and said “I’m tired of pining for a girl that’s never going to see me the way I see her”. I was gone just like that.