Chick who spurned man is now upset that he has ghosted her

[MatureDJ]

'Ghosted' by my boyfriend: After four years together he left and I never heard from him again

www.telegraph.co.uk

Ultimately though, he wanted to get married and I didn’t. He wanted our relationship to move forward, whereas I was very happy with the dinners out and not-too-much-commitment status quo.

Round and round we went - he still hoping he could change my mind, me constantly trying to tie him down into a promise of friendship and contact no matter what.

In the end, after much denial on both of our parts, I called him up one day only to find a stranger on the end of the line. We had an eight second conversation during which he repeated the fact that he was tired.
I never heard from him again.

I wanted him, but only on my own terms, and we were caught in a spiral of mutual destruction that the ghosting stopped dead.

my opinion: She wanted to keep him in her orbiter stable, but he wasn't having any of that; with him, it was up or out.

 

[sosousage]

shes uglier than my azzzh0le

also maturedj these websites u quote have sheit articles that provide 0 value why r u wasting time reading them

it has no sources no nothing story could be made up and even if not then whats the point of writing about normal breakup?

 

[dude99]

Her words:


"it took me some time to realise he was gone for good. But over the next few weeks, my emails, letters, even doorbell rings went unacknowledged."

This is proper no contact. The people in the no contact challenge board should take note

Her hamster wheel is still spinning (hence she wrote an article years later) even after marrying another dude. Her mind still goes back to the guy who dumped and ghosted her.

 

[Georgepithyou]

So she has nothing to offer in the relationship and is surpised he ghosted?

 

[Hal9000]

He made it clear what he wanted and she told him no fvcking way. Don't chicks cry constantly about men being honest about their feelings and not wanting us to play games? Well this guy did just that and it got him nowhere. Then when he decides to move on she's all upset because he decided to move on after being rejected. The narcissism is strong with this one.

 

[Robert28]

He made it clear what he wanted and she told him no fvcking way. Don't chicks cry constantly about men being honest about their feelings and not wanting us to play games? Well this guy did just that and it got him nowhere. Then when he decides to move on she's all upset because he decided to move on after being rejected. The narcissism is strong with this one.

In all fairness, it’s taught on here to never share your feelings with a woman. But at the same time you’re supposed to make yourself clear about what you want. This guy handled it right though. I’ve ghosted many girls, one I knew for a year and i up and ghosted her with no warning. I woke up oneday and said “I’m tired of pining for a girl that’s never going to see me the way I see her”. I was gone just like that.