MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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my opinion: She wanted to keep him in her orbiter stable, but he wasn't having any of that; with him, it was up or out.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Chick who spurned man is now upset that he has ghosted her
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
shes uglier than my azzzh0le
also maturedj these websites u quote have sheit articles that provide 0 value why r u wasting time reading them
it has no sources no nothing story could be made up and even if not then whats the point of writing about normal breakup?
also maturedj these websites u quote have sheit articles that provide 0 value why r u wasting time reading them
it has no sources no nothing story could be made up and even if not then whats the point of writing about normal breakup?
Her words:
"it took me some time to realise he was gone for good. But over the next few weeks, my emails, letters, even doorbell rings went unacknowledged."
This is proper no contact. The people in the no contact challenge board should take note
Her hamster wheel is still spinning (hence she wrote an article years later) even after marrying another dude. Her mind still goes back to the guy who dumped and ghosted her.
"it took me some time to realise he was gone for good. But over the next few weeks, my emails, letters, even doorbell rings went unacknowledged."
This is proper no contact. The people in the no contact challenge board should take note
Her hamster wheel is still spinning (hence she wrote an article years later) even after marrying another dude. Her mind still goes back to the guy who dumped and ghosted her.
Georgepithyou
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So she has nothing to offer in the relationship and is surpised he ghosted?
He made it clear what he wanted and she told him no fvcking way. Don't chicks cry constantly about men being honest about their feelings and not wanting us to play games? Well this guy did just that and it got him nowhere. Then when he decides to move on she's all upset because he decided to move on after being rejected. The narcissism is strong with this one.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
In all fairness, it’s taught on here to never share your feelings with a woman. But at the same time you’re supposed to make yourself clear about what you want. This guy handled it right though. I’ve ghosted many girls, one I knew for a year and i up and ghosted her with no warning. I woke up oneday and said “I’m tired of pining for a girl that’s never going to see me the way I see her”. I was gone just like that.