Chick was giving me IOIs but she has some ugly fat bf

[JPlaya]

So I go to a party last night and I don't really know anybody there. Everybody is outside talking while I'm in the kitchen with the people I came with making a drink. Well, these girls come in, lets call them hb6 and hb7 and they're giving me obvious IOIs. I use kino and such and everybody comes in from outside to another room. The guys in there are fat, short, and already balding lol. I'm like ohhh easy play field. Wrong, my friend tells me that they are there boyfriends. I'm like wtf, and the guys go back. The girls stay in the kitchen and we talk and the guys come back in and walk in the kitchen and they're beta as **** to them. Well, the host tells everybody that she's sleepy so we're kicked out haha. I have two questions now. Should I try these chicks, and how do these type of guys get girls in the first place?

 

[Zerro]

Some chicks seem to prefer a guy who submits to their whims and ugly beta dudes do so easily while an alpha would tell her to get stuffed if she tries to boss him around. I see this all the time, especially with some of the chicks at work, they got so many guys who'll bend over backwards just because they're women but they dislike me as I won't do them favors that I know they won't repay and my response to them trying to push me around is "you're trying to be authorative, how cute."

 

[JohnChops]

Some chicks seem to prefer a guy who submits to their whims and ugly beta dudes do so easily while an alpha would tell her to get stuffed if she tries to boss him around. I see this all the time, especially with some of the chicks at work, they got so many guys who'll bend over backwards just because they're women but they dislike me as I won't do them favors that I know they won't repay and my response to them trying to push me around is "you're trying to be authorative, how cute."

I see this all the time, women will settle for guys they can control in every aspect because they know they will never be left. Hence why pulling away works so well instead of giving in to her whims :rock: And for the first question, just go for it who cares ... the relationship obviously isnt great if there clearly flirting with you.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

Girls will settle for ugly, dull guys just because they are tired of being lonely. Since Alpha males are so rare these days due to the wussification of this era. They'll settle with a loser, while the whole time still be looking for the man they TRULY want. I myself have pulled these BOREfriend's girls three times. They'll gladly cheat and won't blink about it.

This one chick I kept dissing for 5 months eventually gave up trying me and settled for this fat guy who she wouldn't give the time of day during those 5 months HE was trying to get her. That's why self improvement and being the prize is so important. Don't EVER be complacent with one "dream girl" if you know your game isn't top notch. Because it is an illusion, those guys are just those girl's 2nd options.

To sum up this scenario:
Girl is with ugly, dull guy
Womenese translation: Soon as somebody better comes along your gone!!!

 

[JPlaya]

Well I'm going to go for the kill. Don't really want a relationship right now, so ha

 

[MisterD]

I've definitely lost out on ***** by holding my ground and being a man as opposed to being a pushover and submitting to a woman

some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to

 

[Zerro]

I've definitely lost out on ***** by holding my ground and being a man as opposed to being a pushover and submitting to a woman

some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to

That's why you need to be able to recognize when it's in your best interest to go along with what she wants, as long as it benefits you.