So I go to a party last night and I don't really know anybody there. Everybody is outside talking while I'm in the kitchen with the people I came with making a drink. Well, these girls come in, lets call them hb6 and hb7 and they're giving me obvious IOIs. I use kino and such and everybody comes in from outside to another room. The guys in there are fat, short, and already balding lol. I'm like ohhh easy play field. Wrong, my friend tells me that they are there boyfriends. I'm like wtf, and the guys go back. The girls stay in the kitchen and we talk and the guys come back in and walk in the kitchen and they're beta as **** to them. Well, the host tells everybody that she's sleepy so we're kicked out haha. I have two questions now. Should I try these chicks, and how do these type of guys get girls in the first place?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Chick was giving me IOIs but she has some ugly fat bf
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Some chicks seem to prefer a guy who submits to their whims and ugly beta dudes do so easily while an alpha would tell her to get stuffed if she tries to boss him around. I see this all the time, especially with some of the chicks at work, they got so many guys who'll bend over backwards just because they're women but they dislike me as I won't do them favors that I know they won't repay and my response to them trying to push me around is "you're trying to be authorative, how cute."
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Zerro said:Some chicks seem to prefer a guy who submits to their whims and ugly beta dudes do so easily while an alpha would tell her to get stuffed if she tries to boss him around. I see this all the time, especially with some of the chicks at work, they got so many guys who'll bend over backwards just because they're women but they dislike me as I won't do them favors that I know they won't repay and my response to them trying to push me around is "you're trying to be authorative, how cute."
I see this all the time, women will settle for guys they can control in every aspect because they know they will never be left. Hence why pulling away works so well instead of giving in to her whims :rock: And for the first question, just go for it who cares ... the relationship obviously isnt great if there clearly flirting with you.
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Girls will settle for ugly, dull guys just because they are tired of being lonely. Since Alpha males are so rare these days due to the wussification of this era. They'll settle with a loser, while the whole time still be looking for the man they TRULY want. I myself have pulled these BOREfriend's girls three times. They'll gladly cheat and won't blink about it.
This one chick I kept dissing for 5 months eventually gave up trying me and settled for this fat guy who she wouldn't give the time of day during those 5 months HE was trying to get her. That's why self improvement and being the prize is so important. Don't EVER be complacent with one "dream girl" if you know your game isn't top notch. Because it is an illusion, those guys are just those girl's 2nd options.
To sum up this scenario:
Girl is with ugly, dull guy
Womenese translation: Soon as somebody better comes along your gone!!!
This one chick I kept dissing for 5 months eventually gave up trying me and settled for this fat guy who she wouldn't give the time of day during those 5 months HE was trying to get her. That's why self improvement and being the prize is so important. Don't EVER be complacent with one "dream girl" if you know your game isn't top notch. Because it is an illusion, those guys are just those girl's 2nd options.
To sum up this scenario:
Girl is with ugly, dull guy
Womenese translation: Soon as somebody better comes along your gone!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've definitely lost out on ***** by holding my ground and being a man as opposed to being a pushover and submitting to a woman
some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to
some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to
That's why you need to be able to recognize when it's in your best interest to go along with what she wants, as long as it benefits you.MisterD said:I've definitely lost out on ***** by holding my ground and being a man as opposed to being a pushover and submitting to a woman
some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to