So I go to a party last night and I don't really know anybody there. Everybody is outside talking while I'm in the kitchen with the people I came with making a drink. Well, these girls come in, lets call them hb6 and hb7 and they're giving me obvious IOIs. I use kino and such and everybody comes in from outside to another room. The guys in there are fat, short, and already balding lol. I'm like ohhh easy play field. Wrong, my friend tells me that they are there boyfriends. I'm like wtf, and the guys go back. The girls stay in the kitchen and we talk and the guys come back in and walk in the kitchen and they're beta as **** to them. Well, the host tells everybody that she's sleepy so we're kicked out haha. I have two questions now. Should I try these chicks, and how do these type of guys get girls in the first place?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chick was giving me IOIs but she has some ugly fat bf
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Some chicks seem to prefer a guy who submits to their whims and ugly beta dudes do so easily while an alpha would tell her to get stuffed if she tries to boss him around. I see this all the time, especially with some of the chicks at work, they got so many guys who'll bend over backwards just because they're women but they dislike me as I won't do them favors that I know they won't repay and my response to them trying to push me around is "you're trying to be authorative, how cute."
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Zerro said:Some chicks seem to prefer a guy who submits to their whims and ugly beta dudes do so easily while an alpha would tell her to get stuffed if she tries to boss him around. I see this all the time, especially with some of the chicks at work, they got so many guys who'll bend over backwards just because they're women but they dislike me as I won't do them favors that I know they won't repay and my response to them trying to push me around is "you're trying to be authorative, how cute."
I see this all the time, women will settle for guys they can control in every aspect because they know they will never be left. Hence why pulling away works so well instead of giving in to her whims :rock: And for the first question, just go for it who cares ... the relationship obviously isnt great if there clearly flirting with you.
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Girls will settle for ugly, dull guys just because they are tired of being lonely. Since Alpha males are so rare these days due to the wussification of this era. They'll settle with a loser, while the whole time still be looking for the man they TRULY want. I myself have pulled these BOREfriend's girls three times. They'll gladly cheat and won't blink about it.
This one chick I kept dissing for 5 months eventually gave up trying me and settled for this fat guy who she wouldn't give the time of day during those 5 months HE was trying to get her. That's why self improvement and being the prize is so important. Don't EVER be complacent with one "dream girl" if you know your game isn't top notch. Because it is an illusion, those guys are just those girl's 2nd options.
To sum up this scenario:
Girl is with ugly, dull guy
Womenese translation: Soon as somebody better comes along your gone!!!
This one chick I kept dissing for 5 months eventually gave up trying me and settled for this fat guy who she wouldn't give the time of day during those 5 months HE was trying to get her. That's why self improvement and being the prize is so important. Don't EVER be complacent with one "dream girl" if you know your game isn't top notch. Because it is an illusion, those guys are just those girl's 2nd options.
To sum up this scenario:
Girl is with ugly, dull guy
Womenese translation: Soon as somebody better comes along your gone!!!
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I've definitely lost out on ***** by holding my ground and being a man as opposed to being a pushover and submitting to a woman
some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to
some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to
That's why you need to be able to recognize when it's in your best interest to go along with what she wants, as long as it benefits you.MisterD said:I've definitely lost out on ***** by holding my ground and being a man as opposed to being a pushover and submitting to a woman
some women go on these power trips where they'd rather date an afc who she has total control over than a man who doesn't play her games and sets her straight when he needs to