Chick wants to facetime before meeting up.

[biggoal]

Do any of them just like to hook up? Or is it all traditional dating stuff?

Not sure. I only recently started using this app but looks like more traditional dating based on reading the profiles. But then again upside is better looking women than tinder trash. First day I signed up got like a dozen likes and not bad matches. Had an HB8 who wanted to meet but was also from the other coast but I didn't feel like meeting halfway because I was too busy and tired. She told me she was tired of meeting guys who would sleep with her and then break up with her.

 

[biggoal]

Exactly. If you are a sociable guy that isn't awkward, you can use phone call and face time to your advantage. It sets you apart.

I've done calls before and they talk too much. Phone, text, facebutt, etc. should be used for setting up a date. Not talking for hours. The more you talk before the date the less you have to talk about AND increases the chances of slipping and saying the wrong things.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I've done calls before and they talk too much. Phone, text, facebutt, etc. should be used for setting up a date. Not talking for hours. The more you talk before the date the less you have to talk about AND increases the chances of slipping and saying the wrong things.

Nah this is just bullcrap man. YOU control the conversation and how long it is, not them. If you want to get off the phone, tell them you need to run.

And if you are worried about saying the wrong things or screwing yourself over, you clearly need to work on your conversational skills...I talk to women pretty regularly prior to first dates and it always leads to them being MORE interested in meeting not less. Talking getting them to laugh and having fun is a GOOD thing.

If they don't want to meet after talking to you, it's on you for not having conversational skills which means meeting in person is simply going to have things go the same way, but at least you met up.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Go along with it. Keep it under 20
Minutes. The real question is why talk to a girl 100 miles away

 

[The Duke]

Tell her you want video of what she looks like nude before you drive all that way.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Go along with it. Keep it under 20
Minutes. The real question is why talk to a girl 100 miles away

Well, you've read his posts.

 

[biggoal]

Go along with it. Keep it under 20
Minutes. The real question is why talk to a girl 100 miles away

because in the major metro areas they're hotter, more single women who are not single moms, less damaged and less grannies.

 

[EyeBRollin]

because in the major metro areas they're hotter, more single women who are not single moms, less damaged and less grannies.

Pack up and move. You have a geography problem. Gotta go where the fish are biting

 

[Willie Naylor]

Pack up and move. You have a geography problem. Gotta go where the fish are biting

I get what you're saying, but packing up and moving because you want more girls is a bit extreme.

Just let him sell his cell phone cases and spend 6 hours a day on SS b!tching about online dating trends.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I get what you're saying, but packing up and moving because you want more girls is a bit extreme.

It’s not extreme. Single women move to cities. If single guy wants a variety of women, he has to be where the single women are. Sex requires logistics.

 

[Willie Naylor]

It’s not extreme. Single women move to cities. If single guy wants a variety of women, he has to be where the single women are. Sex requires logistics.

No no, I get that. I'm saying there are much more important things to make life choices around than women.

 

[biggoal]

It’s not extreme. Single women move to cities. If single guy wants a variety of women, he has to be where the single women are. Sex requires logistics.

That is extreme to move just because of women. Unless you live like in Rural Missouri or Arkansas.

There are people on this forum wanting to move to 3rd world countries to meet women.

 

[biggoal]

It’s not extreme. Single women move to cities. If single guy wants a variety of women, he has to be where the single women are. Sex requires logistics.

Why do they like big cities so much for?

 

[EyeBRollin]

No no, I get that. I'm saying there are much more important things to make life choices around than women.

That is extreme to move just because of women. Unless you live like in Rural Missouri or Arkansas.

There are people on this forum wanting to move to 3rd world countries to meet women.

Its not just women; the high earning careers, amenities, high end real estate.. it’s all found in cities.

Do you man. Either enjoy the grannies and fatties or pack up and move to a major city. We can’t create any more HBs in your hood.

 

[MissouriMark]

Sounds like a good thing for you since you want to know what she REALLY looks like before meeting up with her anyway.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Flirt with her and ask her if she'll be topless during the zoom call.

No reason not to do it, if she's looking to filter you out then she's gonna do it regardless

Do this

 

[biggoal]

Its not just women; the high earning careers, amenities, high end real estate.. it’s all found in cities.

Do you man. Either enjoy the grannies and fatties or pack up and move to a major city. We can’t create any more HBs in your hood.

My county has a population of 188,000 and a median age of 57 years old. Is that bad stats?

 

[corrector]

Talking to an HB7.5 from OLD about 100 miles away in Ft. Lauderdale. I offered to meet in Naples and she said maybe but would rather facetime first.

I never do zoom, Facetime etc. Face to face or it's a no go.

Should I cave into her demands? I usually try and to stick to women no more than 50 miles away, but on OLD I have to look more than 50 miles to see new faces and less fat women.

Sure you should cave into her demands. Personally I would prefer zoom or a video to video chat anyway since its no skin of my nose in terms of inconvenience, time or travelling anywhere if it doesn't work out anyway. Whose interest is it to waste time at the end of the day if you never had a chance? Focus on just elimination and having high-interest women. If she's not high-interest you are saving your time by doing that and nipping it in the bud.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Face Time either ramps up interest or kills it, I can't recall ever having a bad face time with a woman, but I also look a lot better on video than in picture

 

[2Rocky]