“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chick wants to facetime before meeting up.

BillyPilgrim

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She told me she was tired of meeting guys who would sleep with her and then break up with her.
I've found that females who want to video call to be the suspicious, scrutinizing sort, so something to keep in mind. Make sure to keep it short and keep your responses generic. Also, make sure the camera is at eye-level or slightly above. Don't have the camera below you.


Sounds like a good thing for you since you want to know what she REALLY looks like before meeting up with her anyway.
Her face, sure. But she can still hide her body

Face Time either ramps up interest or kills it, I can't recall ever having a bad face time with a woman, but I also look a lot better on video than in picture
I suspect you're in the minority on this but you may have a good video camera. But you're almost always going to look better in person than on camera. And if you make any kind of quirky facial expression it may count against you without being able to use in-person charisma or well-calibrated kino'ing to make up for it.

Video calling may well be the wave of the future but I'd be suspicious of the early adopters at this point. Might be worth practicing on throwaway prospects to get the learning curve out of the way. But still, it feels way too much like a job interview. What the hell is sexy about that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah they should call it body time instead of face time so you can REALLY see what they look like beforehand!!
 
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