"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chick wants me in a 3-some. Yes or no?

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Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma.

This girl wants to **** me, but she wants me to **** her in 3 some. And I don't know wether to do it or not. She said "A 3 some with one in me and me giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." And I said no, but she said I'm always welcome to join her. I mean I dont even know the other dude, and come on. If it was me and one of my good friends, I'd totally be down. But me and another guy I dont even know, it's just weird.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wouldn't do it, it sounds like you would be degrading yourself for some easy sex.
 
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Sick! I would never have another d!ck in shooting distance of me. Think about it man he could bust in your eye. In fact I don't want another d!ck anywhere near me.
 

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Slim Shady607 said:
Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma....
What's the dilemma? Are you or are you not gay?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i tag teamed a girl before
its not that bad, its not like u touching his ****, stop being so incesure,
do u not change in the MEN changeroom at the gym? guys walk around naked.

its one thing to see ****s as normal part of the human, and its a totally different thing to be interested in a **** and get turned on by it.

i understand if u dont wanna do it with some random guy, its better if its ur buddy, like snoop said.
"aint no fun if the homies cant have none"
 

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Running the train on a girl is completely weird.
No quality girl would ask for that, but a slut would.
 

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don't do that i say only have a 3 some if its u and 2 girls thats the right way
 

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I'd have a threesome with 2 girls, or me and another guy on one girl... but I'd rather know the guy.

I say do it anyways, for bragging rights!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What's the dilemma? Are you or are you not gay?
Wait a sec, my mistake. I thought she said that you'd be giving the other guy head... :eek: Even though it's not the case, it's still not my style. I'm a one man show... :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Slim Shady607 said:
Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma.

This girl wants to **** me, but she wants me to **** her in 3 some. And I don't know wether to do it or not. She said "A 3 some with one in me and me giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." And I said no, but she said I'm always welcome to join her. I mean I dont even know the other dude, and come on. If it was me and one of my good friends, I'd totally be down. But me and another guy I dont even know, it's just weird.

I got excited when I first read the title to the thread. I thought threesome always meant "girl, girl, guy". Anything else would be uncivilized and disgusting.
 

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Slim Shady607 said:
Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma.

This girl wants to **** me, but she wants me to **** her in 3 some. And I don't know wether to do it or not. She said "A 3 some with one in me and me giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." And I said no, but she said I'm always welcome to join her. I mean I dont even know the other dude, and come on. If it was me and one of my good friends, I'd totally be down. But me and another guy I dont even know, it's just weird.
She wants you to suck another guys d!ck!!?? Is this b!tch trippin!!! I hope you are saying NO. I've had a three way once with some guy I didn't know. It was at a party and I was drunk. Only thing I was focusing on was the girl we were fvcking. It's up to you whether you feel comfortable doing it.

P.S. WEAR A CONDOM!
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
She wants you to suck another guys d!ck!!?? Is this b!tch trippin!!! I hope you are saying NO. I've had a three way once with some guy I didn't know. It was at a party and I was drunk. Only thing I was focusing on was the girl we were fvcking. It's up to you whether you feel comfortable doing it.

P.S. WEAR A CONDOM!
Oh wow I thought he meant that she would suck off one guy while the other guy fvcked her.

My bad. But no man don't put another mans equipment near any of your orafices.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
She wants you to suck another guys d!ck!!?? Is this b!tch trippin!!! I hope you are saying NO. I've had a three way once with some guy I didn't know. It was at a party and I was drunk. Only thing I was focusing on was the girl we were fvcking. It's up to you whether you feel comfortable doing it.

P.S. WEAR A CONDOM!
I read that too but she said that she wanted "A 3 some with one in me (her) and me (her) giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." If it was really the other way it could have been her giving one guy head and one in him. :eek: Uhhhggg, I can't believe I said that....

Hey, if we can't get it straight, I wouldn't advice going through with anything that includes more than one monkeystick in the room....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It aint gay cos your fvcking a chick dude.

I wouldn't do it though. Stranger, weird. Friend, weird. Masssive slut, STDs. No thanks. If you want to then go for it but it really sounds like you don't man.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Sick! I would never have another d!ck in shooting distance of me. Think about it man he could bust in your eye. In fact I don't want another d!ck anywhere near me.
xx2

3some with 2 girls is great...but with a girl & another guuy? thats just nasty.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
If it was really the other way it could have been her giving one guy head and one in him. :eek: Uhhhggg, I can't believe I said that....
LOL
 

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Mate what can you get out of this situation? You are not going to look back on it and feel good, it's not going to give you any confidence, if your mates find out about it you will be harrassed about it (not that it matters) and there's nothing you can really get out of this but getting a quick fix with a random guy right there. Yuky.
 

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I GOT IT!!!!

Tell her that you'd do it if it were with another woman doing her with a strap on!

Hey come on, I'm grasping at straws here....
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I GOT IT!!!!

Tell her that you'd do it if it were with another woman doing her with a strap on!

Hey come on, I'm grasping at straws here....
Just don't get the short straw... Yeah, ask her for a 3-way with another girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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