Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chick wants me in a 3-some. Yes or no?

Slim Shady607

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Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma.

This girl wants to **** me, but she wants me to **** her in 3 some. And I don't know wether to do it or not. She said "A 3 some with one in me and me giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." And I said no, but she said I'm always welcome to join her. I mean I dont even know the other dude, and come on. If it was me and one of my good friends, I'd totally be down. But me and another guy I dont even know, it's just weird.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stéphane

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I wouldn't do it, it sounds like you would be degrading yourself for some easy sex.
 
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Sick! I would never have another d!ck in shooting distance of me. Think about it man he could bust in your eye. In fact I don't want another d!ck anywhere near me.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Slim Shady607 said:
Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma....
What's the dilemma? Are you or are you not gay?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i tag teamed a girl before
its not that bad, its not like u touching his ****, stop being so incesure,
do u not change in the MEN changeroom at the gym? guys walk around naked.

its one thing to see ****s as normal part of the human, and its a totally different thing to be interested in a **** and get turned on by it.

i understand if u dont wanna do it with some random guy, its better if its ur buddy, like snoop said.
"aint no fun if the homies cant have none"
 

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Running the train on a girl is completely weird.
No quality girl would ask for that, but a slut would.
 

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don't do that i say only have a 3 some if its u and 2 girls thats the right way
 

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I'd have a threesome with 2 girls, or me and another guy on one girl... but I'd rather know the guy.

I say do it anyways, for bragging rights!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What's the dilemma? Are you or are you not gay?
Wait a sec, my mistake. I thought she said that you'd be giving the other guy head... :eek: Even though it's not the case, it's still not my style. I'm a one man show... :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slim Shady607 said:
Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma.

This girl wants to **** me, but she wants me to **** her in 3 some. And I don't know wether to do it or not. She said "A 3 some with one in me and me giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." And I said no, but she said I'm always welcome to join her. I mean I dont even know the other dude, and come on. If it was me and one of my good friends, I'd totally be down. But me and another guy I dont even know, it's just weird.

I got excited when I first read the title to the thread. I thought threesome always meant "girl, girl, guy". Anything else would be uncivilized and disgusting.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Slim Shady607 said:
Alright. Here I am again, with another dilemma.

This girl wants to **** me, but she wants me to **** her in 3 some. And I don't know wether to do it or not. She said "A 3 some with one in me and me giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." And I said no, but she said I'm always welcome to join her. I mean I dont even know the other dude, and come on. If it was me and one of my good friends, I'd totally be down. But me and another guy I dont even know, it's just weird.
She wants you to suck another guys d!ck!!?? Is this b!tch trippin!!! I hope you are saying NO. I've had a three way once with some guy I didn't know. It was at a party and I was drunk. Only thing I was focusing on was the girl we were fvcking. It's up to you whether you feel comfortable doing it.

P.S. WEAR A CONDOM!
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
She wants you to suck another guys d!ck!!?? Is this b!tch trippin!!! I hope you are saying NO. I've had a three way once with some guy I didn't know. It was at a party and I was drunk. Only thing I was focusing on was the girl we were fvcking. It's up to you whether you feel comfortable doing it.

P.S. WEAR A CONDOM!
Oh wow I thought he meant that she would suck off one guy while the other guy fvcked her.

My bad. But no man don't put another mans equipment near any of your orafices.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
She wants you to suck another guys d!ck!!?? Is this b!tch trippin!!! I hope you are saying NO. I've had a three way once with some guy I didn't know. It was at a party and I was drunk. Only thing I was focusing on was the girl we were fvcking. It's up to you whether you feel comfortable doing it.

P.S. WEAR A CONDOM!
I read that too but she said that she wanted "A 3 some with one in me (her) and me (her) giving the other guy head. And you guys rotate." If it was really the other way it could have been her giving one guy head and one in him. :eek: Uhhhggg, I can't believe I said that....

Hey, if we can't get it straight, I wouldn't advice going through with anything that includes more than one monkeystick in the room....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It aint gay cos your fvcking a chick dude.

I wouldn't do it though. Stranger, weird. Friend, weird. Masssive slut, STDs. No thanks. If you want to then go for it but it really sounds like you don't man.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Sick! I would never have another d!ck in shooting distance of me. Think about it man he could bust in your eye. In fact I don't want another d!ck anywhere near me.
xx2

3some with 2 girls is great...but with a girl & another guuy? thats just nasty.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
If it was really the other way it could have been her giving one guy head and one in him. :eek: Uhhhggg, I can't believe I said that....
LOL
 

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Mate what can you get out of this situation? You are not going to look back on it and feel good, it's not going to give you any confidence, if your mates find out about it you will be harrassed about it (not that it matters) and there's nothing you can really get out of this but getting a quick fix with a random guy right there. Yuky.
 

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I GOT IT!!!!

Tell her that you'd do it if it were with another woman doing her with a strap on!

Hey come on, I'm grasping at straws here....
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I GOT IT!!!!

Tell her that you'd do it if it were with another woman doing her with a strap on!

Hey come on, I'm grasping at straws here....
Just don't get the short straw... Yeah, ask her for a 3-way with another girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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