"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chick talking about Semen Retention and it's benefits

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Here are somethings she said.


- Semen Retention is rare and using it to transmute your goals, hobbies, passions and spirituality is great.

- It's great for emotional healing.

- Man who has dedicated himself than actually giving away his semen retention for free shows that he has a great amount of self respect for himself and keeping his sexual energy to keep himself magnetic.

- You are a selective man.

- Instead of finding pleasure of female gaze, you find discernment about the qualities of the women you want instead of the lust that controls you.

- It gives you more in control of your life and destiny.

- Choosing not to blow your load on porn or any attractive female gaze is an uncontrolled man

- It's very important for a Man to know who he is and harnessed his sexual energy.

- The people you like and the people you consume on Social media tells who you are. Please do a clean up on your Social Media.

- It gives you Self Respect.

- A strong who has magnetic aura and good life force and going towards a good purpose is going to need semen retention.

- Having a Celibacy period where a Man is going after his goals and purpose can be beneficial to a Man at times.

- A man who has semen retention will be Excited about his future and give him a sense of direction.

- The more you are self contained, the more women will look your way.

Some more of my Pointers:

- Semen Retention is great for Spirituality, if you base it on God on Jesus and Allah or Elohim, you've got it made.

- Use meditation, Prayer and spiritual chanting of God's holy names in your practice.

- Lift weights

- take brisk walks during the day, Do Yoga.

- Have Goals or Projects you can do to continually grow as a Person.

- It is a known fact, that if you want to get something done and something accomplish, you must stay celibate for a while and conserve your semen. Think of the many MMA fighters or Boxers who have done this. Also musicians, writers or Artists.

- Have a group of friends you can chill with every week so you're never alone in the house.

- Read. Read the scriptures Like The Bible, Torah or Bhagavadgita.

- Be in a Man's group or hobby group where you inspire each other and encourage each other to grow as a Person.

- Go to Church and attend your place of worship.

 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yes it works. Stop busting to prawn.

I think if you don't have an outlet or decide to become celibate your frank and beans will wither to the size of actual beans.

There must be a balance of charging up and still being active. Use it or lose it type thing.
 

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I have done semen retention for quite a few years.

I recently fell off it, as I was seeing someone in a relationship.. However it didn't work out.

I'm getting back on semen retention again, as I have experienced first hand the benefits.

Additionally I quit watching p0rn around two years ago, and have never gone back to watching porn since.

If I really really need to bust a nut.. I would simply use my imagination.
 

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These things for me are subject of my green book journal. There are periods where it's discouraged and semen retention is encouraged, especially during the summer months. But I'm unable to program that journal to commit to any full retention given it's focus on using that as an actual coping strategy. As long as this thing hits dopimaine reward centers, it's a tall order to just stop that.

However, the summer is a great season to practise retention compared to other times as the creative energies is necessary to fully enjoy that season, and engage in outdoor activities. I don't see any such benefit in the winter months with long nights and cold miserable weather and, if feeling isolated, you can't draw on just being outside and enjoying the warmth, grass, beauty and warm air like you can do in the summer. Therefore it remain seasonal.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Has that worked for you?
I went several weeks.

Recently relapsed to an old Kryptonite....lol haha. But however, I'm confident I know I can get back up to my streak again due to some Esoteric knowledge I found about it.

The Benefits to Semen Retention I found in the past:

- Increase Creativity

- Increase Physical strength

- You need less sleep and have more energy

- Become more aligned with your spirituality and God. You become closer to your Faith and creator.

- Good to use when you're after a Goal or at a Certain purpose you're trying to achieve in your life.

- You see women as People, not as Sex Objects
 

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"Pick me!"

Sperm cells last 60-75 days and then die. Your body is constantly regenerating sperm. Might as well enjoy your incredibly productive leche factory if no one else is around to receive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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