"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chick talking about Semen Retention and it's benefits

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Here are somethings she said.


- Semen Retention is rare and using it to transmute your goals, hobbies, passions and spirituality is great.

- It's great for emotional healing.

- Man who has dedicated himself than actually giving away his semen retention for free shows that he has a great amount of self respect for himself and keeping his sexual energy to keep himself magnetic.

- You are a selective man.

- Instead of finding pleasure of female gaze, you find discernment about the qualities of the women you want instead of the lust that controls you.

- It gives you more in control of your life and destiny.

- Choosing not to blow your load on porn or any attractive female gaze is an uncontrolled man

- It's very important for a Man to know who he is and harnessed his sexual energy.

- The people you like and the people you consume on Social media tells who you are. Please do a clean up on your Social Media.

- It gives you Self Respect.

- A strong who has magnetic aura and good life force and going towards a good purpose is going to need semen retention.

- Having a Celibacy period where a Man is going after his goals and purpose can be beneficial to a Man at times.

- A man who has semen retention will be Excited about his future and give him a sense of direction.

- The more you are self contained, the more women will look your way.

Some more of my Pointers:

- Semen Retention is great for Spirituality, if you base it on God on Jesus and Allah or Elohim, you've got it made.

- Use meditation, Prayer and spiritual chanting of God's holy names in your practice.

- Lift weights

- take brisk walks during the day, Do Yoga.

- Have Goals or Projects you can do to continually grow as a Person.

- It is a known fact, that if you want to get something done and something accomplish, you must stay celibate for a while and conserve your semen. Think of the many MMA fighters or Boxers who have done this. Also musicians, writers or Artists.

- Have a group of friends you can chill with every week so you're never alone in the house.

- Read. Read the scriptures Like The Bible, Torah or Bhagavadgita.

- Be in a Man's group or hobby group where you inspire each other and encourage each other to grow as a Person.

- Go to Church and attend your place of worship.

 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yes it works. Stop busting to prawn.

I think if you don't have an outlet or decide to become celibate your frank and beans will wither to the size of actual beans.

There must be a balance of charging up and still being active. Use it or lose it type thing.
 

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I have done semen retention for quite a few years.

I recently fell off it, as I was seeing someone in a relationship.. However it didn't work out.

I'm getting back on semen retention again, as I have experienced first hand the benefits.

Additionally I quit watching p0rn around two years ago, and have never gone back to watching porn since.

If I really really need to bust a nut.. I would simply use my imagination.
 

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These things for me are subject of my green book journal. There are periods where it's discouraged and semen retention is encouraged, especially during the summer months. But I'm unable to program that journal to commit to any full retention given it's focus on using that as an actual coping strategy. As long as this thing hits dopimaine reward centers, it's a tall order to just stop that.

However, the summer is a great season to practise retention compared to other times as the creative energies is necessary to fully enjoy that season, and engage in outdoor activities. I don't see any such benefit in the winter months with long nights and cold miserable weather and, if feeling isolated, you can't draw on just being outside and enjoying the warmth, grass, beauty and warm air like you can do in the summer. Therefore it remain seasonal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Has that worked for you?
I went several weeks.

Recently relapsed to an old Kryptonite....lol haha. But however, I'm confident I know I can get back up to my streak again due to some Esoteric knowledge I found about it.

The Benefits to Semen Retention I found in the past:

- Increase Creativity

- Increase Physical strength

- You need less sleep and have more energy

- Become more aligned with your spirituality and God. You become closer to your Faith and creator.

- Good to use when you're after a Goal or at a Certain purpose you're trying to achieve in your life.

- You see women as People, not as Sex Objects
 

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"Pick me!"

Sperm cells last 60-75 days and then die. Your body is constantly regenerating sperm. Might as well enjoy your incredibly productive leche factory if no one else is around to receive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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