"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chick offered a BJ..should i take it?

WORKEROUTER

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this average lookin but annoying chick offered me a BJ (and maybe a little more, depending on what i want) with no strings attached (prolly cuz she just wants me to like her), and i declined for some reason.

would you guys take it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Porky

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No! Never accept sexual favors! You can't even kiss a girl until you're married.

Hold her hand if you really want to live on the edge.
 

CableLight

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Free is free...It's all the same in the dark :p :eek:
 

Trogdawg

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If she is clean take it. Fvck her brains out. If you start to like her date her. But if you just want to fvck her go for it. Don't let her use it against you. She offered it for free. If she starts to get *****y about it. Well, there are a lot of other chicks walking around who are just dying to put something hard in their mouths.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ShizamDaMan

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As long as she's not disgusting I'd say go for it.

Perfect setup for friends with benefits :p
 

BustedKnucks

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If she's average, then sure.

But you seem uncertain. If you have second thoughts about her looks, and would be ashamed of it, then don't. There's plenty of *****es to go around. If she's decent looking, or has at least one redeeming quality, then bust on her face.
 

SnatchJP

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I think you did the right thing. If anything she'll be more interested now.

Also, it seems fairly likely that an offer like that would be a set-up. You may have just escaped one of the most embarrasing moments of your life. Who knows?
 

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Unless you are never going to see chick again or very little then you probably did a good thing turning her down. I dont know how old you are, but if the chick goes to your school then you can expect everyone in the school to know about it the next day and its something that a lot of people will remember. Some people wont care, others may thing that your desperate, and who knows what. IMO I dont think its worth it for 10 minutes of pleasuer with an average chick.
 

Canadianpimpology

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Sure, I would of she was average and was clean. Just as long as she meets fukable standards I don't see a problem. Beat those boy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Abnigh9

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......... I think I'm sure you all can tell he's just mocking you?...... I'm not sure why anybody would reject a bj...:confused:
 

ShizamDaMan

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Oh yeah, if she gives you **** just be like "B1tch, you weren't so talkative with my D1CK in your mouth!"
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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It looks like I'm the lone voice of dissent on this one. I say its a no go. Here's why:

1) There is no such thing as no-strings sex, not for a woman. Sorry you didn't get the memo. That BJ is going to get you more drama than a theater major...

2) You obviously were not interested in her before the offer. If you were thinking about pursuing her before then I'd say more power to you, but the fact is that in order to accept you'd have to sacrifice your standards.

You are a man. Never let your hormones, no matter how enraged, compel you to act where you would know better otherwise. You're the better man for it and I personally respect and salute you for holding onto your dignity. As you can see, not too many guys would. You're well on your way to becoming an Alpha-Male if you keep that in mind.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 
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