"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chick Music?

timmylivingalie

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What to do when a chick wants to listen to her music instead of yours. Use to encounter this problem in vehicles and at parties.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Equilibrium

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Swat her hand away from the radio and tell her no. Trust me man. I blew it with some girl over the summer and I attributed it to this. Now, that sounds weird, but, my friends in the car thought the same thing. I let her put on her girly dance dance stuff. Now I don't let a woman touch the thing. Maybe rarely, but definitely not early on. You wouldn't go putting on your music in her car, and she's doing it as a subtle little **** test to see how pliable you are. My first instinct is to not care, but I know better.
 

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I try to avoid it by finding chicks with similar musical tastes to my own, not all of them are into all that pop garbage.

Anyhow, the rule is that you don't touch the driver's radio: PERIOD. Doesn't matter if it's a chick or a dude riding in my car, you keep your hands off of the stereo unless you want to start walking instead.
 

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He (or she) who drives...everybody knows that. Since I rarely am not driving when with a woman it's usually me.

Usually at a party people want to listen to girly dance music or hip hop. Not my choice but if it's what the people want it is good manners to go with what your guests want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Love's Orphan

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My car, my music. Her car, her music.
 

timmylivingalie

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Aaron B said:
ala David DeAngelo:

if she complains about your music, look her in the eye and turn it up LOUDER
Back in my AFC days I had to suffer through everthing from aqua to destinys child. lol
 
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