timmylivingalie
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What to do when a chick wants to listen to her music instead of yours. Use to encounter this problem in vehicles and at parties.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chick Music?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Swat her hand away from the radio and tell her no. Trust me man. I blew it with some girl over the summer and I attributed it to this. Now, that sounds weird, but, my friends in the car thought the same thing. I let her put on her girly dance dance stuff. Now I don't let a woman touch the thing. Maybe rarely, but definitely not early on. You wouldn't go putting on your music in her car, and she's doing it as a subtle little **** test to see how pliable you are. My first instinct is to not care, but I know better.
I try to avoid it by finding chicks with similar musical tastes to my own, not all of them are into all that pop garbage.
Anyhow, the rule is that you don't touch the driver's radio: PERIOD. Doesn't matter if it's a chick or a dude riding in my car, you keep your hands off of the stereo unless you want to start walking instead.
Anyhow, the rule is that you don't touch the driver's radio: PERIOD. Doesn't matter if it's a chick or a dude riding in my car, you keep your hands off of the stereo unless you want to start walking instead.
He (or she) who drives...everybody knows that. Since I rarely am not driving when with a woman it's usually me.
Usually at a party people want to listen to girly dance music or hip hop. Not my choice but if it's what the people want it is good manners to go with what your guests want.
Usually at a party people want to listen to girly dance music or hip hop. Not my choice but if it's what the people want it is good manners to go with what your guests want.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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My car, my music. Her car, her music.
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So basically find a chick who is into ls school soul and get it on with her, amitrie?
Too bad when I say Al Green they say wat?
Lame.
Too bad when I say Al Green they say wat?
Lame.
timmylivingalie
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Back in my AFC days I had to suffer through everthing from aqua to destinys child. lolAaron B said: