"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chick Music?

timmylivingalie

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What to do when a chick wants to listen to her music instead of yours. Use to encounter this problem in vehicles and at parties.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Equilibrium

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Swat her hand away from the radio and tell her no. Trust me man. I blew it with some girl over the summer and I attributed it to this. Now, that sounds weird, but, my friends in the car thought the same thing. I let her put on her girly dance dance stuff. Now I don't let a woman touch the thing. Maybe rarely, but definitely not early on. You wouldn't go putting on your music in her car, and she's doing it as a subtle little **** test to see how pliable you are. My first instinct is to not care, but I know better.
 

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I try to avoid it by finding chicks with similar musical tastes to my own, not all of them are into all that pop garbage.

Anyhow, the rule is that you don't touch the driver's radio: PERIOD. Doesn't matter if it's a chick or a dude riding in my car, you keep your hands off of the stereo unless you want to start walking instead.
 

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He (or she) who drives...everybody knows that. Since I rarely am not driving when with a woman it's usually me.

Usually at a party people want to listen to girly dance music or hip hop. Not my choice but if it's what the people want it is good manners to go with what your guests want.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Love's Orphan

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My car, my music. Her car, her music.
 

timmylivingalie

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Aaron B said:
ala David DeAngelo:

if she complains about your music, look her in the eye and turn it up LOUDER
Back in my AFC days I had to suffer through everthing from aqua to destinys child. lol
 
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