"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chick is mad that people found out we hooked up?

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foomee

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Wtf? Is she that embarrassed of me? A few minutes after sex she tells me that she thinks that was a bad idea and she doesn't want anyone to find out. So it's our little secret or something. This is mainly due to all of the drama it would cause because she's one of my ex's good friends, etc. etc.
But still... she texts me tonight asking if I told anyone. I said no. And she said some people told her that I said we did, which is completely bull. How should I go about dealing with this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NickBe

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If she is one of your ex's friends then maybe it isn't you its the fact that she does not want her friend to find out. Just keep your mouth shut unless it servers some advantage you telling people.
 
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Do what you want, man. Don't let some bossy and stuck up drama queen tell you what to do or who you can talk to.

If she didn't want anyone finding out, she should have kept her clothes on. Don't get involved with her rules and drama. Just tell her "These things happen" or "Get over it".
 
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foomee said:
Wtf? Is she that embarrassed of me? A few minutes after sex she tells me that she thinks that was a bad idea and she doesn't want anyone to find out. So it's our little secret or something. This is mainly due to all of the drama it would cause because she's one of my ex's good friends, etc. etc.
But still... she texts me tonight asking if I told anyone. I said no. And she said some people told her that I said we did, which is completely bull. How should I go about dealing with this?
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It's her anti-slut defence in operation. It's normal. She doesn't want her circle to think she's a slut by ****ing a her friend's ex. It's like Fight Club. What's the first rule of Fight Club?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Snow Plowman

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Max Power said:
It's her anti-slut defence in operation. It's normal. She doesn't want her circle to think she's a slut by ****ing a her friend's ex. It's like Fight Club. What's the first rule of Fight Club?
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It could be true...

...but one question

How was the sex? Did you hold your side of the pleasure giving? To really find out basically try to get a meet up again and escalate it to sex. If this doesn't work out then...yep it was your sex game.
 
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bachelor

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Don't sweat it man. If she wants to be immature let her be... Shes obviously has some issues where she's scared of everyone else finding out so let her be... Move on to some other girls lol...
 
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