"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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last time we were supposed to meet she did the same if i remember well.


she invites me like crazy to her home and then when I finally say OK and try to get the details (address) she goes dumb mode and makes fun out of it "can you ask politely?" "where is what?" "say: can i have your address please ms Alice (her name)"


i really wanna block her. im younger than her but it feels like shes the younger one


what do i reply to these or do i just block her? then i lose sex but this is some bs i cant plan the day cuz she goes retard mode
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell her that? She’s being immature trying to make you ask for all these stupid things, and that if she doesn’t want you to come over then she just stop talking to you. No way would I tell a chick that if she asked me too wtf

You gotta be okay letting bitches go. That’s basically it. Why do I say bitches? Yes, I used the word ‘bitches’, because anyone who asks for something like that is a *****. What the hell is wrong with people....
 

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Just tell her not to worry about it and stop texting her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seems like she just wants to have fun. But if you don't like that then either tell her or stop responding.
 

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The entire situation takes your balls. You can't allow this to be the frame, hence you have to leave .
 

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She has already proven herself to be a waste of time, with the maturity of a 12 year old..

Why would you even want to spend any time with a low quality person!

Don't even bother with any kind of response..

YOU SIR need to completely GHOST this one!

Find yourself a better quality girl to BANG!
 

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She has already proven herself to be a waste of time, with the maturity of a 12 year old..

Why would you even want to spend any time with a low quality person!

Don't even bother with any kind of response..

YOU SIR need to completely GHOST this one!

Find yourself a better quality girl to BANG!
He probably thinks it's "high" quality cause she's "hot".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OMG standards!!!!

Set the bar higher for women who YOU choose to interact with.

If she's making it difficult she is not worth your valuable time!
 

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He probably thinks it's "high" quality cause she's "hot".

How many men give up there self respect, and dignity, over some good looking Vagina!

Its pathetic!

However I guess at some point, before we discovered red pill and SS we all did our share of putting puzzy on a pedestal.

I Guess he has come to the right place, and will take on our advice, and learn to become a man who truly values himself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Personally, I would text "nevermind" and forget about her.
 

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she invites me like crazy to her home and then when I finally say OK and try to get the details (address) she goes dumb mode and makes fun out of it "can you ask politely?" "where is what?" "say: can i have your address please ms Alice (her name)"

i really wanna block her. im younger than her but it feels like shes the younger one

what do i reply to these or do i just block her? then i lose sex but this is some bs i cant plan the day cuz she goes retard mode
Why even bother with this stupid immature b*tch? She's treating you like a complete idiot, give her a snarky one liner and cut her off.

If you're willing to let a girl walk all over you and make you look stupid just for the remote possibility of getting sex, you're already losing completely.
 

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So what would be a slick response? I mean, is she literally just clamoring for attention or legitimately trying to be funny? If the second option, how would a guy discern that?
 

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So what would be a slick response? I mean, is she literally just clamoring for attention or legitimately trying to be funny? If the second option, how would a guy discern that?
Well normally if a girl's being funny it's pretty obvious. If there's some clever in-joke where she's mocking you and you're mocking her back and it's all part of some massive sexy flirt-game that's completely different.

I knew a girl I used to go to Archery with, I constantly mocked her shooting accuracy even when she was beating me, and she constantly laughed at my lack of coordination too. Even when she was talking about jobs and stuff I'd jokingly say she was too incompetent for that - but always playfully. If that girl said to me "Be a good boy when you're asking for my address or you can't have it" I would say something silly and cheeky like "You're just saying that because you've forgotten where you live, haven't you?"

This on the other hand comes across as some power-tripping princess who barely knows the OP and is just laughing at his sexual desperation, but making him beg for sex that he'll probably never be granted. Nasty. I wouldn't even bother with a "clever" line, I'd just say "I'm into getting j*rked off, not j*rked around. Find someone else." Block, done.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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