Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That girl's analysis of the therapy industry is spot on.
A lot of social media content is geared at dudes who can't get laid to save their lives, but want to find somebody (women) who are also suffering so they don't feel so bad.More schadenfreude material.
Correct!A lot of social media content is geared at dudes who can't get laid to save their lives, but want to find somebody (women) who are also suffering so they don't feel so bad.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's not a matter of "can't"... Entirely too many of us are flat out refusing to do The Basics for ourselvesA lot of social media content is geared at dudes who can't get laid to save their lives...

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Chappelle said it best in one of his shows: a lot of internet personalities have to be negative because nobody pays attention unless they provoke people. They need an emotional reaction, and outrage is the easiest one.A lot of social media content is geared at dudes who can't get laid to save their lives, but want to find somebody (women) who are also suffering so they don't feel so bad.
Yup just like the "news"Chappelle said it best in one of his shows: a lot of internet personalities have to be negative because nobody pays attention unless they provoke people. They need an emotional reaction, and outrage is the easiest one.
If there’s no common enemy and everyone is content, the money machine stops.
A lot of social media content is geared at dudes who can't get laid....
I think thw Wallstreet journal tries to avoid this. - but they make people pay for their content. Same with consumer reports.Yup just like the "news"
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah, I tend to agree. Men can at least improve themselves in some way.Its up for debate who has it worse. I lean towards its the women.
Imagine being told by your dad that you were special, that you could do no wrong. that you could have the whole world in the palm of your hand. imagine being told this by your mom. your teachers, your friends; society in general that you were awesome and that the only people that deserved you, had to be very special.. like a figurative prince charming. them when you are from 18 to 21 you notice all the attention guys give you.Yeah, I tend to agree. Men can at least improve themselves in some way.
But for women, sadly, every second that ticks off the clock means less value for them and a shrinking pool of potential suitors.
Yeah... When has a lit major in real life ever resembled Dakota Johnson in the slightest?E.L. James is a trundling lolcow and a -1/10 (when fully clothed). I only saw the films but this is every woman's wet dream: Pat Bateman or a dark triad vanilla wannabe takes an obsessive interest in a 6/10.