"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Egoist

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Originally posted by Infinite
Egoist - Sounds good. This weekend is going to be pretty crazy with Halloween and such, so we can go out maybe the following weekend, or during the week.

I just turned 26.
I've read DYD a long time ago and recently read The Game. Have you tried Peacocking? Essentially that is wearing something outlandish to make yourself stand out in the crowd. I know it sounds kind of silly, but tried it for the first time last week and it worked amazingly. There are so many things that seem ridiculous, but they work.

I'd say I'm a 'natural' once I've got a foot in the door, but I've not gotten the girls that I really want - I want to turn things up a whole lot. I'm sick of settling for girls that I am barely attracted to. I want the super hot girls with the amazing personalities, and there are a ton of them running around this city.
I read The Game and Jugglers e-book.. Should probably read DYD since im into C&F..

Yeah, i peacock on a smaller scale usually, by dressing like a ****y ******* (think white blazer with a popped collar, aviators inside a club, etc) wearing really nice **** in general.. I probably would go much farther than that given a chance.. I probably dont need encouragement in that area.. :crackup:

And yeah, i feel you on the hotties, I feel entitled to hot girls after having some very hot AND smart girlfriends in the past, so I don't wanna settle either, actually one of my biggest motivators to keep working out and working on my game is seeing so many hot girls around where I live..

we gotta hang out, I'll PM ya.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Infinite

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Originally posted by Egoist
actually one of my biggest motivators to keep working out and working on my game is seeing so many hot girls around where I live..
I totally agree. I have my HB5 FB and she is real fun and all (asks me to tie her up, etc, etc), but then I go out on a Friday and I'm just pissed because I want some tasty chicks - and I know they want the same thing that the HB5 wants, and probably more.

Anyways, I'll send you a PM.
 

Dapper Swindler

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I just moved to Chicago and I'm also looking for wingmen.

I'm 24

My e-mail is [email protected]
 

djzulu

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Moving to Chicago

Hi,

I am relocating to Chicago in January due to a new job.

I have already visited Chicago twice, so I am familiar with some of the neighborhoods but would appreciate any advise / suggestions as to where to live - I am looking for a neighborhood that's strategically located next to bars clubs etc.

Any suggestions?

Email: [email protected]
AIM: djzulu69

Thanks!
 

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Re: Moving to Chicago

Originally posted by djzulu
Hi,

I am relocating to Chicago in January due to a new job.

I have already visited Chicago twice, so I am familiar with some of the neighborhoods but would appreciate any advise / suggestions as to where to live - I am looking for a neighborhood that's strategically located next to bars clubs etc.

Any suggestions?

Email: [email protected]
AIM: djzulu69

Thanks!
gold coast, lincoln park, river north, west loop, streetersville are all good places...

close to everything, tons of young people, close to bars/clubs/shopping/lake

where's your job at? i guess it all depends on your budget as well...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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coaster

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I am looking for the same so send let me know if you want to meet up ...I am 21
 

Gallito

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hey

hi I just move to Chicago March 1, lookig for some wing mans too
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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poohead

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any chicagoers wanna hit the bars and clubs this weekend?

my friends are too afc, and i'm in a boot camp right now. i need to hit the bars if i want to hit my quota for the week.

email me if you want to party down:rockon:
 

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I did a Chicago bootcamp there two weekends ago.

Chicago has a Lair and Message Board at:
http://socialskillz.com/phpBB/index.php

My student sent me a FR/Testimonial that I haven't put up yet. It's the one where I had to tell him to kiss the girl or I'd kick his ass :)
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/apbs-patented-100-perfect-kiss-close.html

I also met a couple local PUAs include Masterpiece, Rush, and Hostile.

Best Venue:
Le Plassage on Friday (expensive cover, but a good venue with good quality/quantity of women)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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