"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chicago role call

macallik

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If you are in the windy city, post in this thread so that we can get together and take over the city from Hyde Park to Rogers Park, and everywhere in between. Skill level is not important
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SageNinja

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Eyyyooooooooooooooo

Hyde Park? DAmn man.
 

macallik

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What's wrong with HP? Lol.

Anyways to figure out a little about each other and see who we might mesh with let's all say a little about ourselves

Age: 26
I think the best looking girls in Chicago are always located : In the Loop
My favorite clubbing district are: West Loop and Wicker
 

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macallik said:
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I think the best looking girls in Chicago are always located : In the Loop
Hellz yeah. That's where I do all my day game.
My favorite clubbing district are: West Loop and Wicker
River North
 

macallik

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Bulls over the Nets. Boooooomshakalaka
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gringoverde

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Glad to see some activity in the Chicago scene. Hopefully you can connect with some good wingmen out there. One of my best friends is moving out to Chicago, but he's not big on the PUA community. He doesn't think that it'll help him find an LTR. I'm definitely going to visit him out there, but I'm not sure how much time I'll have for game seeing as the focus is visiting him. Enjoy Tyler's talk. I really enjoyed the free tour in Seattle with Alexander.
 

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Im 21 and live in Michigan City (Indiana) its easy for me to take the train up to chi to have a good time with people who have similar interests.



I'm still pretty new to this and it would be amazing to find a mentor type guy out there to chill with and learn from.

Hit me up.
 

macallik

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Alright one of these days we need to get together and run some day game. Anyone interested can pm me and I'll set something up
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in the city too, I'm in the newbie phase atm but I've been reading about pua, women, relationships and datinhg for years
 

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Im Visiting. Veyr Interested To Sarge With Local People. I'm Not A Noob. I'm In Downtown. Pm Your # And I Will Call U Now. Will Leave On Saturday
 
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