Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chicago role call

macallik

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If you are in the windy city, post in this thread so that we can get together and take over the city from Hyde Park to Rogers Park, and everywhere in between. Skill level is not important
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eyyyooooooooooooooo

Hyde Park? DAmn man.
 

macallik

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What's wrong with HP? Lol.

Anyways to figure out a little about each other and see who we might mesh with let's all say a little about ourselves

Age: 26
I think the best looking girls in Chicago are always located : In the Loop
My favorite clubbing district are: West Loop and Wicker
 

SageNinja

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I think the best looking girls in Chicago are always located : In the Loop
Hellz yeah. That's where I do all my day game.
My favorite clubbing district are: West Loop and Wicker
River North
 

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Bulls over the Nets. Boooooomshakalaka
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Glad to see some activity in the Chicago scene. Hopefully you can connect with some good wingmen out there. One of my best friends is moving out to Chicago, but he's not big on the PUA community. He doesn't think that it'll help him find an LTR. I'm definitely going to visit him out there, but I'm not sure how much time I'll have for game seeing as the focus is visiting him. Enjoy Tyler's talk. I really enjoyed the free tour in Seattle with Alexander.
 

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Im 21 and live in Michigan City (Indiana) its easy for me to take the train up to chi to have a good time with people who have similar interests.



I'm still pretty new to this and it would be amazing to find a mentor type guy out there to chill with and learn from.

Hit me up.
 

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Alright one of these days we need to get together and run some day game. Anyone interested can pm me and I'll set something up
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm in the city too, I'm in the newbie phase atm but I've been reading about pua, women, relationships and datinhg for years
 

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Im Visiting. Veyr Interested To Sarge With Local People. I'm Not A Noob. I'm In Downtown. Pm Your # And I Will Call U Now. Will Leave On Saturday
 
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