"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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macallik

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If you are in the windy city, post in this thread so that we can get together and take over the city from Hyde Park to Rogers Park, and everywhere in between. Skill level is not important
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SageNinja

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Eyyyooooooooooooooo

Hyde Park? DAmn man.
 

macallik

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What's wrong with HP? Lol.

Anyways to figure out a little about each other and see who we might mesh with let's all say a little about ourselves

Age: 26
I think the best looking girls in Chicago are always located : In the Loop
My favorite clubbing district are: West Loop and Wicker
 

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I think the best looking girls in Chicago are always located : In the Loop
Hellz yeah. That's where I do all my day game.
My favorite clubbing district are: West Loop and Wicker
River North
 

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Bulls over the Nets. Boooooomshakalaka
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Glad to see some activity in the Chicago scene. Hopefully you can connect with some good wingmen out there. One of my best friends is moving out to Chicago, but he's not big on the PUA community. He doesn't think that it'll help him find an LTR. I'm definitely going to visit him out there, but I'm not sure how much time I'll have for game seeing as the focus is visiting him. Enjoy Tyler's talk. I really enjoyed the free tour in Seattle with Alexander.
 

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Im 21 and live in Michigan City (Indiana) its easy for me to take the train up to chi to have a good time with people who have similar interests.



I'm still pretty new to this and it would be amazing to find a mentor type guy out there to chill with and learn from.

Hit me up.
 

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Alright one of these days we need to get together and run some day game. Anyone interested can pm me and I'll set something up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in the city too, I'm in the newbie phase atm but I've been reading about pua, women, relationships and datinhg for years
 

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Im Visiting. Veyr Interested To Sarge With Local People. I'm Not A Noob. I'm In Downtown. Pm Your # And I Will Call U Now. Will Leave On Saturday
 
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