"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Checked out for stds?

twotyme

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Has anyone been checked out for stds? Do you just go to a health department or a hospital? How much does it cost?
About a week or so ago I has sex with this slut and being stupid I didn't use a condom. Im not worried about pregnacy since shes on birth control though. But right now my throat hurts really bad-feels as if theres a lump or something in there when I swallow. Occaisionally I've been a little dizzy or gotten headaches too. But too my knowledge shes fine so if she gave me any stds she would have to have them in the first place-so seeing how shes fine and didnt have any symptoms does that mean im prolly just being paranoid and that I prolly just have the flu or something?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You can tell your doctor to run the tests. My doctor always asks me if I want to take an HIV test all the time. I made my girlfriend get tested, and she got a lil pissy about it, but fk her (which I can safely do now.)
 

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This is a serious question and i am glad someone raised it. Statistically speaking, all these master PUA's probably have aids.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jackie_legs

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Marlimus said:
This is a serious question and i am glad someone raised it. Statistically speaking, all these master PUA's probably have aids.

haha true. me no stds I still cant have sex..damn.

does anyone know what kind of test they do?

also good thread man.:up:
 

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If you have medical insurance then you should visit your regular general practice doctor to do the tests. If no medical insurance then there should be walk in clinics in your city which will do the tests. There's no need to visit a hospital.
 

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You can get HIV testing done for FREE in most cities. Check the internet...
 

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If your HIV test comes up negative, retest in another six or seven months... unfortunately,they're looking for antibodies to HIV, not the virus itself.
Those antibodies take some time to develop after first exposure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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