"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Checked out for stds?

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Has anyone been checked out for stds? Do you just go to a health department or a hospital? How much does it cost?
About a week or so ago I has sex with this slut and being stupid I didn't use a condom. Im not worried about pregnacy since shes on birth control though. But right now my throat hurts really bad-feels as if theres a lump or something in there when I swallow. Occaisionally I've been a little dizzy or gotten headaches too. But too my knowledge shes fine so if she gave me any stds she would have to have them in the first place-so seeing how shes fine and didnt have any symptoms does that mean im prolly just being paranoid and that I prolly just have the flu or something?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can tell your doctor to run the tests. My doctor always asks me if I want to take an HIV test all the time. I made my girlfriend get tested, and she got a lil pissy about it, but fk her (which I can safely do now.)
 
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This is a serious question and i am glad someone raised it. Statistically speaking, all these master PUA's probably have aids.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Marlimus said:
This is a serious question and i am glad someone raised it. Statistically speaking, all these master PUA's probably have aids.
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haha true. me no stds I still cant have sex..damn.

does anyone know what kind of test they do?

also good thread man.:up:
 
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If you have medical insurance then you should visit your regular general practice doctor to do the tests. If no medical insurance then there should be walk in clinics in your city which will do the tests. There's no need to visit a hospital.
 
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You can get HIV testing done for FREE in most cities. Check the internet...
 
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If your HIV test comes up negative, retest in another six or seven months... unfortunately,they're looking for antibodies to HIV, not the virus itself.
Those antibodies take some time to develop after first exposure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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