"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Checked out for stds?

twotyme

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Has anyone been checked out for stds? Do you just go to a health department or a hospital? How much does it cost?
About a week or so ago I has sex with this slut and being stupid I didn't use a condom. Im not worried about pregnacy since shes on birth control though. But right now my throat hurts really bad-feels as if theres a lump or something in there when I swallow. Occaisionally I've been a little dizzy or gotten headaches too. But too my knowledge shes fine so if she gave me any stds she would have to have them in the first place-so seeing how shes fine and didnt have any symptoms does that mean im prolly just being paranoid and that I prolly just have the flu or something?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can tell your doctor to run the tests. My doctor always asks me if I want to take an HIV test all the time. I made my girlfriend get tested, and she got a lil pissy about it, but fk her (which I can safely do now.)
 

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This is a serious question and i am glad someone raised it. Statistically speaking, all these master PUA's probably have aids.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Marlimus said:
This is a serious question and i am glad someone raised it. Statistically speaking, all these master PUA's probably have aids.

haha true. me no stds I still cant have sex..damn.

does anyone know what kind of test they do?

also good thread man.:up:
 

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If you have medical insurance then you should visit your regular general practice doctor to do the tests. If no medical insurance then there should be walk in clinics in your city which will do the tests. There's no need to visit a hospital.
 

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You can get HIV testing done for FREE in most cities. Check the internet...
 

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If your HIV test comes up negative, retest in another six or seven months... unfortunately,they're looking for antibodies to HIV, not the virus itself.
Those antibodies take some time to develop after first exposure.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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