ok i was in class the other day and we are studying some chaucer bullshvt about how when a man submits to a woman somethin or other happens- irrelevant- anyway getting into his lecture our teacher asks us What do women want- since chaucers theme is kinda about how women want men to cater to there needs- ok so anyway when he asks what we think women want, i replied with this -----"Women want to be secure. They desire to be safe and with a man who will bring them security with money and a stable relationship. Women want things that will make them happy, they want a prince charming to constantly compliment them and tell them they are beautiful. They want a guy who will surprise them and be spontaneous. They want a guy that everyone will like. --- ok so i said that, and some girls started awwing and stuff- is it afc to say something like that, im not saying i do it, i was just sayin what they want--- GOOD OR BAD MOVE?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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what you said is so gay. :crackup:
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
what woman want and desire are two totally different things..
thats what you should've said.
thats what you should've said.