ok i was in class the other day and we are studying some chaucer bullshvt about how when a man submits to a woman somethin or other happens- irrelevant- anyway getting into his lecture our teacher asks us What do women want- since chaucers theme is kinda about how women want men to cater to there needs- ok so anyway when he asks what we think women want, i replied with this -----"Women want to be secure. They desire to be safe and with a man who will bring them security with money and a stable relationship. Women want things that will make them happy, they want a prince charming to constantly compliment them and tell them they are beautiful. They want a guy who will surprise them and be spontaneous. They want a guy that everyone will like. --- ok so i said that, and some girls started awwing and stuff- is it afc to say something like that, im not saying i do it, i was just sayin what they want--- GOOD OR BAD MOVE?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mroriginal
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what you said is so gay. :crackup:
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
what woman want and desire are two totally different things..
thats what you should've said.
thats what you should've said.