"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Check out this girl I met's POF Profile

Reyaj

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When I took a trip to DC I ended up meeting this girl. I want you guys to dissect what she wrote in her POF profile and tell me if anything has merit to seducing her.

https://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=51774037

None of her relationships last and she seems to have short term sexual relationships. This is kind of what I mean about looks mattering... i feel like nothing in her profile is relevant.

Looks wise is this the type of girl you'd go for?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Your focus is off. You are missing the target. Get a life. Go get Bae. Let's cucks worry about it.
 

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Lol. Of course nothing in her profile matters. When you fill out that garbage do you write anything meaningful? If you were honest youd keep it short, sweet and worry about how the person treated you if and when you meet them.
 

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She seem very active sexually. her over revealing photos sound like she look for some really hot guys that she find it hard to get with her current look and age.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't like the way she is holding that fish... Next..
 

R.U.G.

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What are you looking for? A possible LTR or hang and bang? Since she states she doesn't have success with long relationships and is tatted up all over her back, I'd say she's a hang and bang only. Your call though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No harm in going for her number, but I wouldn't invest to much time at all on her.

Me personally, I get the feeling she is high maintenance.
 

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Her house is untidy and she has the hint of slight asperger's
 

MoreThanSmooth

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The first pic...umm, I don't like it...artificial and kind of weird. The second...she looks cute.

Pictures are not a reliable source of judging people TBH, especially dating site selfies. Everything's jazzed up and unrealistic.

My ex was (IMO) really attractive, but her online dating pictures were AWFUL. In that case it actually worked to my advantage, because I'm sure a lot of other guys just assumed she wasn't that pretty. But she had one pretty photo and I took a chance...she has some good photos here and probably looks better in RL, so give it a go.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EyeBRollin

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I would hit it but that's it. She could be a fun plate. She isn't too high up on the SMV so she doesn't have every guy oogling over her... but she looks like she can **** like a rabbit.
 

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Is she balding?
 

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this is all you need to know about her
""taking the queen to dinner tonight. Where should we go?" And literally that's all I want in a relationship... someone who feeds me and thinks I'm a queen."

at least she is honest about her princess syndrome and telling you, dont trust me to invest myself into you at all
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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