"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Check out my MySpace and tell me what you think

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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alright, well i just dont wana come off as an ass or anything.

anything i should add to make it more awesome? haha
 

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ahaha nah im not plannin on pickin up girls over myspace, thats just whack.

but thanks for the tips brah
 

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1. Get rid of that profile pic you look like Bill Nye the science guy
2. "im a nice guy but i can come off as an ******* sometimes" Why would you want a woman to see that you can come off as an ******* lol? Get rid of that.
3. I think your overdoing it with the cars. Im a huge car guy, and after talking to lots of girls, many of them think my obsession with cars is really weird.
4. Try to get a cool layout and make your page look nice rather than just have it with an all white background
 

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There's no point mentioning that you like girls. It's a given.

Re-size your pictures so they're the same size.

I'm guessing the picture of the creepy guy with the cigar is important? I don't know who he is. Most girls probably don't either. Get rid of it.

You like cars? So does every other guy. Keep the photos of them to a minimum, don't plaster them everywhere.

Sent you a friend request, btw
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vice said:
There's no point mentioning that you like girls. It's a given.

Re-size your pictures so they're the same size.

I'm guessing the picture of the creepy guy with the cigar is important? I don't know who he is. Most girls probably don't either. Get rid of it.


You like cars? So does every other guy. Keep the photos of them to a minimum, don't plaster them everywhere.

Sent you a friend request, btw
Dude are you retarded thats Jack Nicholson...hes the man.
 

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ight so less cars.

and eaglez LMFAO!!

i know right. Jack Nicholson is a fuken mac daddy

eh Dima, ya toshe ruski

what bout the meagan fox picture?
 

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and the picture is prom. so ill take it down in a few days since it was like last week
 

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how do you get so many friends? do you keep in touch with even half of those people?
 

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What's up.

It's too plain.
You need to pimp it out.
Do a google search and get the code and stuff
to make it look nice. Kind of like making a little web site
with cool pictures, text and graphics .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i like it plain.

i dont wana look like a douch with "DC" plastered all over the place.
 

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and with the friends thing.

alot of them are people that i know, not keep in touch daily,
 

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why don't you add a background ?
also, why is there a homecoming tux pic where you are with your girl cousin as your profile pic?
to a female, we would assume she was a date and think you were not single.

and lastly, whats with the song playing in the background with lyrics that say "baby you know that i miss you"???
*gag*


everything else was nice.
 

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that song is hot dude.

but yeah il change the profile pic soon.

i never take pictures so that kinda sucks.


and what about the meaghan fox picture?
 

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Daniel1099 said:
that song is hot dude.

but yeah il change the profile pic soon.

i never take pictures so that kinda sucks.


and what about the meaghan fox picture?
im a chick, not a dude.
was she the one on the left side?
if so, its fine.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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penkitten said:
im a chick, not a dude.
was she the one on the left side?
if so, its fine.
Oh well damn!. im sorry. haha.

didnt know their were this many females on a self-improvement websight
 

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Daniel1099 said:
Oh well damn!. im sorry. haha.

didnt know their were this many females on a self-improvement websight
less than 10 of us , when we are all active
 

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you cant go wrong with a black background, and a few cool things. Just stay away from a whole background picture page. You can never read the writing when people do that anyways. Its like they dont look at their own page sometimes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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