"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Check out my MySpace and tell me what you think

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alright, well i just dont wana come off as an ass or anything.

anything i should add to make it more awesome? haha
 

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ahaha nah im not plannin on pickin up girls over myspace, thats just whack.

but thanks for the tips brah
 

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1. Get rid of that profile pic you look like Bill Nye the science guy
2. "im a nice guy but i can come off as an ******* sometimes" Why would you want a woman to see that you can come off as an ******* lol? Get rid of that.
3. I think your overdoing it with the cars. Im a huge car guy, and after talking to lots of girls, many of them think my obsession with cars is really weird.
4. Try to get a cool layout and make your page look nice rather than just have it with an all white background
 

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There's no point mentioning that you like girls. It's a given.

Re-size your pictures so they're the same size.

I'm guessing the picture of the creepy guy with the cigar is important? I don't know who he is. Most girls probably don't either. Get rid of it.

You like cars? So does every other guy. Keep the photos of them to a minimum, don't plaster them everywhere.

Sent you a friend request, btw
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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Vice said:
There's no point mentioning that you like girls. It's a given.

Re-size your pictures so they're the same size.

I'm guessing the picture of the creepy guy with the cigar is important? I don't know who he is. Most girls probably don't either. Get rid of it.


You like cars? So does every other guy. Keep the photos of them to a minimum, don't plaster them everywhere.

Sent you a friend request, btw
Dude are you retarded thats Jack Nicholson...hes the man.
 

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ight so less cars.

and eaglez LMFAO!!

i know right. Jack Nicholson is a fuken mac daddy

eh Dima, ya toshe ruski

what bout the meagan fox picture?
 

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and the picture is prom. so ill take it down in a few days since it was like last week
 

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how do you get so many friends? do you keep in touch with even half of those people?
 

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What's up.

It's too plain.
You need to pimp it out.
Do a google search and get the code and stuff
to make it look nice. Kind of like making a little web site
with cool pictures, text and graphics .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i like it plain.

i dont wana look like a douch with "DC" plastered all over the place.
 

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and with the friends thing.

alot of them are people that i know, not keep in touch daily,
 

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why don't you add a background ?
also, why is there a homecoming tux pic where you are with your girl cousin as your profile pic?
to a female, we would assume she was a date and think you were not single.

and lastly, whats with the song playing in the background with lyrics that say "baby you know that i miss you"???
*gag*


everything else was nice.
 

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that song is hot dude.

but yeah il change the profile pic soon.

i never take pictures so that kinda sucks.


and what about the meaghan fox picture?
 

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Daniel1099 said:
that song is hot dude.

but yeah il change the profile pic soon.

i never take pictures so that kinda sucks.


and what about the meaghan fox picture?
im a chick, not a dude.
was she the one on the left side?
if so, its fine.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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penkitten said:
im a chick, not a dude.
was she the one on the left side?
if so, its fine.
Oh well damn!. im sorry. haha.

didnt know their were this many females on a self-improvement websight
 

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Daniel1099 said:
Oh well damn!. im sorry. haha.

didnt know their were this many females on a self-improvement websight
less than 10 of us , when we are all active
 

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you cant go wrong with a black background, and a few cool things. Just stay away from a whole background picture page. You can never read the writing when people do that anyways. Its like they dont look at their own page sometimes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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