"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Check my body language
- Thread starter Gap
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
- Your head is leaning forward too much.
- Straighten your back.
- You look like a skinny bastard, so start working out.
- Take your hands out of your pockets.
- Go buy some lighter coloured clothes, all black doesn't exactly make you stand out.
- Your face looks submissive, yet aggressive. Try looking a bit happier, with a smile.
- The walk is pretty decent, although it doesn't look like this is the way you walk normally.
- Get a suntan if you can, it may be the lighting but you look quite pale.
Jippii
Don Juan
Best way to fix everything is by starting to workout and eating alot. The testosterone will take care of it...
I guess I was about your weight a year ago and I've since added 15+ kgs of muscle... Totally different person now and the body language is definitely different now (no trying to be alpha like back then and in your video).
Anyway good effort on putting the video up there, definitely on your way to improvement.
I guess I was about your weight a year ago and I've since added 15+ kgs of muscle... Totally different person now and the body language is definitely different now (no trying to be alpha like back then and in your video).
Anyway good effort on putting the video up there, definitely on your way to improvement.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
What the hell kind of file is that?
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Can you make a .zip file for us?
P.S. Only computer nerds use that program anyway.
P.S. Only computer nerds use that program anyway.
Gap
Don Juan
yes i will make zip after i come from school now i have to go 
i will make another movie with bl, but it`s hard to walk with the both hands out of my pockets i really can`t i am used to go with them in my pockets
i will make another movie with bl, but it`s hard to walk with the both hands out of my pockets i really can`t
i am used to go with them in my pocketsOk, I made a .ZIP out of the .ace file that Gap posted.
Here it is
The download might be a bit slow... because the server is in Spain.. but its a moderate speed.
Well got to go.
Here it is
The download might be a bit slow... because the server is in Spain.. but its a moderate speed.
Well got to go.
Gap
Don Juan
thats me, i have a strange methabolism but i am not complexed... i still ****
i will make a new body language movie all the day i walked with hands off pockets and with a heavy bag in my back to stay straight.
i will make a new body language movie all the day i walked with hands off pockets and with a heavy bag in my back to stay straight.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Wow, 1.2 Kbps / second! You should really concider upgrading your webserver to a dialup server that's in the US.
And for some reason the way you're walking doesn't seem natural, it just looks wierd.
And for some reason the way you're walking doesn't seem natural, it just looks wierd.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You look like some highschool goth kid in that video. Stop wearing all black and trying to walk like James Dean.
I second that!
I'd check this link out http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18040
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gap
Don Juan
k i understand, ty
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
You have obviously never used mirc.