“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JesterX

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Ok well there is this girl i know and she has liked me for awhile but i only recently made a move on her (making out, messing around). the thing is she has a boyfriend (i dont really know much about him/never met him). and yeah she says she is sexually attracted to me and she isnt going to tell her bf about what happened or about what will happen in the future well anyway if anyone else has had this experience does the girl usually leave there bf if they like you enough? or does anyone think this is wrong? obvouisly it is her choice. and no shes not a slut her bf is her first that she has ever had sex with, but she has liked me for so long that i guess she just cant resist?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it is very very simple.

If she genuinly has feelings for you, then she WILL leave her bf for you. If it is just a sexual thing, then just think of it has hassle free sex.

The way I look at it is, if she leaves him for you, then she is yours, if she doesnt..... then she never was.

:)
 

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Yes, this wonderful young angel seems like the perfect candidate for a girlfriend. Go ahead and ask her to marry you while you're at it. I'm sure her being unfaithful is the guy's fault.... or the fact that she's inexperienced, right? I'm sure as soon as you two get together, she'll change her ways.

Yes, i'm sure of that. I fully recommend this fine young lady. She would NEVER cheat on you. 100% sure.
 

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penguin said:
Yes, this wonderful young angel seems like the perfect candidate for a girlfriend. Go ahead and ask her to marry you while you're at it. I'm sure her being unfaithful is the guy's fault.... or the fact that she's inexperienced, right? I'm sure as soon as you two get together, she'll change her ways.

Yes, i'm sure of that. I fully recommend this fine young lady. She would NEVER cheat on you. 100% sure.
yeah i pretty much expected this answer lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fash said:
it is very very simple.

If she genuinly has feelings for you, then she WILL leave her bf for you. If it is just a sexual thing, then just think of it has hassle free sex.

The way I look at it is, if she leaves him for you, then she is yours, if she doesnt..... then she never was.

:)
To hear things like this and other peoples opinions, whats your take on it?
 

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THE GIRL WILL ONLY LEAVE HER BF IF SHE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.

girls with bf's are tricky situations, i've been there.
Some girls would rather lead a guy on (instead of breaking up) that the relationship is good, even tho she may not be attracted to him anymore.
Because 1-2 yr relationships is a comfort zone, you're used to the person and each other knows the other well. and the fact that girls dont want appear mean by being the dumper instead of the dumpee.

So unless your value is so high that she'll start a relationship with you, i woudlnt expect her to break up anytime soon.

if anything cheating is usually an experimental pre-requisite to an inevitable breakup down the road.
 

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Do you really want to get in too deep with a girl who cheats? That's basically the only question that needs answered.

Enjoy the "hassle-free" attention but don't get your hopes up. Girls age, they don't change.
 
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JesterX said:
...and yeah she says she is sexually attracted to me and she isnt going to tell her bf about what happened or about what will happen in the future ... and no shes not a slut her bf is her first that she has ever had sex with, but she has liked me for so long that i guess she just cant resist?
Keep deluding yourself as most chumps here do -- "I am special and the other guy (her b/f) is "abusive" "controlling", "insecure", an "afc" etc. What is a slut???? Please define!

If she is saying that she is "sexually attracted" to you then she is saying that she wants your penis! You are not "special" - do what you have to do amd put out the fire in her loins!!
 

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guys... who said he wanted to DATE her.

Just because I talk to a girl with a BF, doesn't mean I want her to be my GF.. I just want to have sex, and she is a willing perticipant.

It's not my job to be their relationship advisor. any guy would do the same to me if I wasn't taking care of my business.

If she was married? Okay, back away.. but ****, she ovbiously wants to ****, you want to ****.. what's the issue her?

However, the guys are right on the dating front.. if you are stupid enough to actually get in a relationship with her you need to be shot.

But ****, make her your LTF-Buddy, and understand that it will come to an end one day but enjoy it while it last.

I have no problem with a girl leaving a guy for another guy. If she has a better option, tip your hat and wish her the best.

But to cheat on a guy, then I couldn't date her.

In otherwords, if a girl let me **** before she broke up, I would, but I wouldn't take her seriously any longer
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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