Ok well there is this girl i know and she has liked me for awhile but i only recently made a move on her (making out, messing around). the thing is she has a boyfriend (i dont really know much about him/never met him). and yeah she says she is sexually attracted to me and she isnt going to tell her bf about what happened or about what will happen in the future well anyway if anyone else has had this experience does the girl usually leave there bf if they like you enough? or does anyone think this is wrong? obvouisly it is her choice. and no shes not a slut her bf is her first that she has ever had sex with, but she has liked me for so long that i guess she just cant resist?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
it is very very simple.
If she genuinly has feelings for you, then she WILL leave her bf for you. If it is just a sexual thing, then just think of it has hassle free sex.
The way I look at it is, if she leaves him for you, then she is yours, if she doesnt..... then she never was.
If she genuinly has feelings for you, then she WILL leave her bf for you. If it is just a sexual thing, then just think of it has hassle free sex.
The way I look at it is, if she leaves him for you, then she is yours, if she doesnt..... then she never was.
Yes, this wonderful young angel seems like the perfect candidate for a girlfriend. Go ahead and ask her to marry you while you're at it. I'm sure her being unfaithful is the guy's fault.... or the fact that she's inexperienced, right? I'm sure as soon as you two get together, she'll change her ways.
Yes, i'm sure of that. I fully recommend this fine young lady. She would NEVER cheat on you. 100% sure.
Yes, i'm sure of that. I fully recommend this fine young lady. She would NEVER cheat on you. 100% sure.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
then why did you even post
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
To hear things like this and other peoples opinions, whats your take on it?Fash said:it is very very simple.
If she genuinly has feelings for you, then she WILL leave her bf for you. If it is just a sexual thing, then just think of it has hassle free sex.
The way I look at it is, if she leaves him for you, then she is yours, if she doesnt..... then she never was.
THE GIRL WILL ONLY LEAVE HER BF IF SHE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.
girls with bf's are tricky situations, i've been there.
Some girls would rather lead a guy on (instead of breaking up) that the relationship is good, even tho she may not be attracted to him anymore.
Because 1-2 yr relationships is a comfort zone, you're used to the person and each other knows the other well. and the fact that girls dont want appear mean by being the dumper instead of the dumpee.
So unless your value is so high that she'll start a relationship with you, i woudlnt expect her to break up anytime soon.
if anything cheating is usually an experimental pre-requisite to an inevitable breakup down the road.
girls with bf's are tricky situations, i've been there.
Some girls would rather lead a guy on (instead of breaking up) that the relationship is good, even tho she may not be attracted to him anymore.
Because 1-2 yr relationships is a comfort zone, you're used to the person and each other knows the other well. and the fact that girls dont want appear mean by being the dumper instead of the dumpee.
So unless your value is so high that she'll start a relationship with you, i woudlnt expect her to break up anytime soon.
if anything cheating is usually an experimental pre-requisite to an inevitable breakup down the road.
hardrockfan
Don Juan
Do you really want to get in too deep with a girl who cheats? That's basically the only question that needs answered.
Enjoy the "hassle-free" attention but don't get your hopes up. Girls age, they don't change.
Enjoy the "hassle-free" attention but don't get your hopes up. Girls age, they don't change.
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Keep deluding yourself as most chumps here do -- "I am special and the other guy (her b/f) is "abusive" "controlling", "insecure", an "afc" etc. What is a slut???? Please define!JesterX said:
If she is saying that she is "sexually attracted" to you then she is saying that she wants your penis! You are not "special" - do what you have to do amd put out the fire in her loins!!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
guys... who said he wanted to DATE her.
Just because I talk to a girl with a BF, doesn't mean I want her to be my GF.. I just want to have sex, and she is a willing perticipant.
It's not my job to be their relationship advisor. any guy would do the same to me if I wasn't taking care of my business.
If she was married? Okay, back away.. but ****, she ovbiously wants to ****, you want to ****.. what's the issue her?
However, the guys are right on the dating front.. if you are stupid enough to actually get in a relationship with her you need to be shot.
But ****, make her your LTF-Buddy, and understand that it will come to an end one day but enjoy it while it last.
I have no problem with a girl leaving a guy for another guy. If she has a better option, tip your hat and wish her the best.
But to cheat on a guy, then I couldn't date her.
In otherwords, if a girl let me **** before she broke up, I would, but I wouldn't take her seriously any longer
Just because I talk to a girl with a BF, doesn't mean I want her to be my GF.. I just want to have sex, and she is a willing perticipant.
It's not my job to be their relationship advisor. any guy would do the same to me if I wasn't taking care of my business.
If she was married? Okay, back away.. but ****, she ovbiously wants to ****, you want to ****.. what's the issue her?
However, the guys are right on the dating front.. if you are stupid enough to actually get in a relationship with her you need to be shot.
But ****, make her your LTF-Buddy, and understand that it will come to an end one day but enjoy it while it last.
I have no problem with a girl leaving a guy for another guy. If she has a better option, tip your hat and wish her the best.
But to cheat on a guy, then I couldn't date her.
In otherwords, if a girl let me **** before she broke up, I would, but I wouldn't take her seriously any longer
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.