logicallefty
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Red pill radio right here. Awesome...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Damn Ten. As much as I hate to say it this is the absolute truth! Theres always exception to the rule but you've hit the nail on the head.Lol, I don't get why guys still TRUST women in 2015/2016. They are only good for sex and companionship, you don't OWN them, you are only on a limited LEASE with them and they can cancel that lease (or break it by cheating on you) at anytime. 90% of what comes out of a woman's mouth in relation to dating and relationships is a damn lie. There's no such thing as loyalty left in this market.
If you set your expectations in the right place (which should be set as LOW as possible) you will do alright with this market of women. Trust me........![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why do women call cheating a "mistake". It's not, it's a conscious and deliberate act where they've already balanced what they have in their relationship and nevertheless they DECIDE to proceed with the cheating. My ex wife still keeps calling her fvucking another man for months a "mistake", unbelieveable.Red pill radio right here. Awesome...
^^THIS explains it in full. Outstanding.Lol, when women say their cheating was a "mistake", the "mistake" that she's referring to is the fact she got caught. That's the mistake....it's the fact she wasn't calculating enough to not get caught. Women are sophisticated cheaters, when a chick cheats and gets CAUGHT, that pisses her the fvck off because she begins to kick herself about how someone of her "sophistication" could have been caught.
I think it's funny how women think they're sophisticated and intelligent. Their thinking goes no deeper than a small mud puddle on somebody's lawn.she begins to kick herself about how someone of her "sophistication" could have been caught.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.