logicallefty
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Red pill radio right here. Awesome...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Damn Ten. As much as I hate to say it this is the absolute truth! Theres always exception to the rule but you've hit the nail on the head.Lol, I don't get why guys still TRUST women in 2015/2016. They are only good for sex and companionship, you don't OWN them, you are only on a limited LEASE with them and they can cancel that lease (or break it by cheating on you) at anytime. 90% of what comes out of a woman's mouth in relation to dating and relationships is a damn lie. There's no such thing as loyalty left in this market.
If you set your expectations in the right place (which should be set as LOW as possible) you will do alright with this market of women. Trust me........![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do women call cheating a "mistake". It's not, it's a conscious and deliberate act where they've already balanced what they have in their relationship and nevertheless they DECIDE to proceed with the cheating. My ex wife still keeps calling her fvucking another man for months a "mistake", unbelieveable.Red pill radio right here. Awesome...
^^THIS explains it in full. Outstanding.Lol, when women say their cheating was a "mistake", the "mistake" that she's referring to is the fact she got caught. That's the mistake....it's the fact she wasn't calculating enough to not get caught. Women are sophisticated cheaters, when a chick cheats and gets CAUGHT, that pisses her the fvck off because she begins to kick herself about how someone of her "sophistication" could have been caught.
I think it's funny how women think they're sophisticated and intelligent. Their thinking goes no deeper than a small mud puddle on somebody's lawn.she begins to kick herself about how someone of her "sophistication" could have been caught.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.