logicallefty
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Red pill radio right here. Awesome...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Damn Ten. As much as I hate to say it this is the absolute truth! Theres always exception to the rule but you've hit the nail on the head.Lol, I don't get why guys still TRUST women in 2015/2016. They are only good for sex and companionship, you don't OWN them, you are only on a limited LEASE with them and they can cancel that lease (or break it by cheating on you) at anytime. 90% of what comes out of a woman's mouth in relation to dating and relationships is a damn lie. There's no such thing as loyalty left in this market.
If you set your expectations in the right place (which should be set as LOW as possible) you will do alright with this market of women. Trust me........![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why do women call cheating a "mistake". It's not, it's a conscious and deliberate act where they've already balanced what they have in their relationship and nevertheless they DECIDE to proceed with the cheating. My ex wife still keeps calling her fvucking another man for months a "mistake", unbelieveable.Red pill radio right here. Awesome...
^^THIS explains it in full. Outstanding.Lol, when women say their cheating was a "mistake", the "mistake" that she's referring to is the fact she got caught. That's the mistake....it's the fact she wasn't calculating enough to not get caught. Women are sophisticated cheaters, when a chick cheats and gets CAUGHT, that pisses her the fvck off because she begins to kick herself about how someone of her "sophistication" could have been caught.
I think it's funny how women think they're sophisticated and intelligent. Their thinking goes no deeper than a small mud puddle on somebody's lawn.she begins to kick herself about how someone of her "sophistication" could have been caught.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.