"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChatGPT v. SoSuave

Bokanovsky

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ChatGPT is all the rage these days. For those who aren't familiar, it's an advanced AI that can give complex responses to queries. For sh!ts and giggles, I entered a few random SS thread titles as queries to see what kind advice I would get.

First, a classic post from MatureDJ titled "harridan upset that she paid more on first date than the man, and that he didn't pick her up at her place". Here's what the AI has to say about this:
It is not fair to assume that someone is a "harridan" or difficult person just because they are upset about certain aspects of a first date. Everyone has different expectations and preferences when it comes to dating, and it is important to communicate these expectations and preferences clearly with your date. It is also important to remember that traditional gender roles and expectations should not dictate who pays for a date or who is responsible for transportation. It's important to have a conversation about these expectations before the date and come to an agreement that works for both parties. If there is any dissatisfaction, it is important to talk it out and reach a mutual understanding.

Here's one from Jake_Gyllenhal69 about tattoos: Tattoos are the most glaring red flag of a toxic female.
It is not accurate or fair to make generalizations about people based on physical characteristics such as tattoos. Tattoos are a form of self-expression and can have a variety of meanings for different people. To say that tattoos are a "red flag" of a toxic person, specifically a woman, is not only incorrect but also perpetuates harmful stereotypes. People should be judged based on their actions and character, not their physical appearance. Additionally, it is important to remember that everyone has the right to make their own choices about their bodies and how they choose to decorate them.

And here's another one: if getting chicks is as exhausting as this i want no part in it.
It's important to remember that relationships, whether romantic or platonic, take effort and work to maintain. It's not always easy and it can be disappointing when things don't go as planned. However, it's important to remember that each person is unique and has their own desires, boundaries, and expectations. It's not healthy or fair to put pressure on anyone to conform to your expectations or desires. It's important to focus on building healthy connections with others, based on mutual respect and understanding. Additionally, it's important to remember that there's more to life than just romantic relationships and we can find fulfillment in other aspects of our lives such as career, hobbies, and friendships.
Pretty amusing stuff...and a bit scary given the obvious bias. Although #3 is actually good advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Technology has drastically changed everyone’s life in the last 30 years, but I’m not personally ready to depend on nonhuman intelligence as a source for my life advice…
Yes, it’s amusing tho
 

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If you know how to use technology you no longer have to worry about 2,000 word essays either. Of course your teacher needs to believe you actually have a grasp of the language to accept a paper generated with an AI.

I’m known by my professors as being well spoken and as someone who is comfortable with writing and public speaking, so feeding an article to an AI rewrite tool, then taking its output and running it through an advanced AI grammar check tool, followed by a plagiarism Checker makes an original piece out of it with zero creative effort on my part.

If you cannot compose a sentence on your own you’re fracked tho. So at least there is a price of entry.

Welcome to the new world.
 

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Technology has drastically changed everyone’s life in the last 30 years, but I’m not personally ready to depend on nonhuman intelligence as a source for my life advice…
Yes, it’s amusing tho
This proves what I’ve always thought - that @Billtx49 is actually a bot. ;)
 
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Looks beautiful in theory but for the experienced man, you can see the BS.

Phrases like "it doesn't matter what people think about you" or "you only live once" are great ways to convince a young girl to do horrible decisions (like sleeping with me and becoming a h0e).

For broad subjects not related to dating, the same applies. That A.I looks great for academia were you need to write a bunch of garbage that looks well written but zero practical knowledge.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's just going answer with what it's been programmed with, and since the establishment is woke, I can see why it takes the woke slant.

On the plus side I've heard that it can write computer code that actually works, so it'll save time.
 

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Ask it if people should get the Covid-19 vaccine and report back if it still thinks that " it is important to remember that everyone has the right to make their own choices about their bodies..."
Thank you . These are all generic "good cop" answers with a slight preference towards women. Wouldn't work here, but on a generic forum like reddit it won't be noticed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I showed ChatGPT to the boyfriend of a female friend a few weeks ago at the public, with hilarious results. He asked it to write a story about George Floyd joining the KKK. I nearly spilt my drink.
 

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Dude up there said it's a woke ass chat box and he's right - today Joe Rogan's episode with Lex Fridman discussed this and pointed out the propagandized responses you get now depending on your query. This **** is a total turn off.
 

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Just have a chatgpt reflection of 2025.

Accordingly, I've made 439 chats, 4,293 messages, and on the top 1% of users as far as messages sent.

Could you imagine what would happen if I made 439 threads here in the course of a year, lol

In contrast, being corrector for 16 years...the message count here works out to an average of 640 messages per year (ie trailed off this year since I got more interested in chatgpt, but that's now more an average).
 

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ChatGPT is awesome for informational stuff and automating/speeding up tasks, it’s game changer, but it’s not great for threads like we have here. Especially 4o which will just tell you what you want to hear lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChatGPT is awesome for informational stuff and automating/speeding up tasks, it’s game changer, but it’s not great for threads like we have here. Especially 4o which will just tell you what you want to hear lol.
Everyone keeps trying to tell him this but he doesn’t listen…
 

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I mean ChatGPT offers great everyday life advise but don’t expect it to be some magical dating guru. You gotta still gotta put in the work, - Social skills, grooming, gym and inner game work. You still got to be practical at the end of the day.
 

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I’ve used ChatGPT for logistical things like finding new bars to go to in my city & finding more affordable parking so I don’t blow past my dating budget when going out.. it’s so incredible for making tasty healthy recipes to keep me on my diet.. but for cold approach stuff you should probably make a thread here.

People these days are too sensitive. If they made it too red pill it’d get complaints imo
 
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