Chat log. Think I got her good...What do you think?

[Francisco d'Anconia]

She just told me that yes she is seeing someone. So its confirmed she has been leading me on for the past several months and lying.

She has been making me think all this time she is alone and telling me she is not dating. If I knew this from the beginning I would have just told her to leave me alone.

Now I have been chasing her while she makes me think she is alone...
She has been saying she is not ready to date anyone, blah blah blah...

she lied... why?

Was she lying then or is she lying now?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Was she lying then or is she lying now?

What do you mean?

I think she is seeing someone now and she didn't want me to know.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

What do you mean?

I think she is seeing someone now and she didn't want me to know.

Did she prove it to you? Did you see her with another guy? Why did it come up "all of a sudden?" Think about it.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Did she prove it to you? Did you see her with another guy? Why did it come up "all of a sudden?" Think about it.

No I have never seen her with another guy. But I do remember her talking to a friend about a "date" right before I hooked up with her.

It came up because I got her to admit it in the chat last night. I don't think she wanted me to know. It was a freudian slip or something.

It's pretty obvious to me now this woman is NOT "alone" like she has tried to make me believe the past couple months.


Damn..... another UnMerry Christmas.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

The positive thing is that this "other" guy is most likely the rebound guy so she could come crawling back eventually but I won't hold my breath.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

It has nothing to do with me being masculine dude... I blew it with her by smoking weed in front of her and then it's a long story how I fukked her when I knew my ex was expecting to hang with me and the ex stalked us and got in her face.

She made no secret she was traumatized by those two events. The weed being the worst according to her.

You think it's so simple but it's not. I am only mad because she wasn't honest with me. I don't care about her boyfriend. If those two incidents didnt happen she would be with me exclusively, I have no doubt about that.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I will admit, I don't know the details or the context of what happened, however I've seen women do INSANE things because they were so interested in a guy....if interest is high enough, I believe most women will ignore anything to get the guy.

But let's not digress, all that matters is from this point on you know about her, and now it's time to read her actions and not her words. That will tell you the whole story.

I was in a bad place when I met this woman. I couldn't get away from my Ex's death grip and I did something pretty shady. I pretty much used this new woman so my ex would find out and leave me the hell alone. I didn't plan on the ex finding out at all, but it's just how things unfolded.

So I ended up losing both of them.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...You need to strengthen your frame....Go forth and spin more plates. ..

Sounds familiar.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...It came up because I got her to admit it in the chat last night. I don't think she wanted me to know. It was a freudian slip or something...

Out of curiosity, what exactly did you say to "get her" to admit to seeing someone else. Outside of overhearing her talk about a date before the two of you hooked up, what had she recently done to make you curious about her?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Out of curiosity, what exactly did you say to "get her" to admit to seeing someone else. Outside of overhearing her talk about a date before the two of you hooked up, what had she recently done to make you curious about her?

Francisco, it's in the chat. I don't remember what I said I posted the whole chat log. I was curious because she kept talking about being friends and she wouldn't go out with me anymore but she still loved to text me and she even called me last night, before the infamous chat.

And she let me come over last week but she played hard to get and kissed me but not much. I only stayed for 15 minutes.

In the chat she started talking about her ex husband and then said "she has feelings for someone" and I thought it was her ex husband, and she said no, it's not the ex husband.

So today I just asked her straight up what she meant and she said yes, she is seeing somebody. Which contradicts everything she has been telling me for the past 2 months. And then she started backtracking saying she is "all alone i have nobody"... and trying to tell me she only went out on a date after that night at my house when the ex showed up and I smoked weed.

So isn't this other guy her rebound guy? Because she knows I wouldn't allow myself to be the rebound guy.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Francisco, it's in the chat. I don't remember what I said I posted the whole chat log. I was curious because she kept talking about being friends and she wouldn't go out with me anymore but she still loved to text me and she even called me last night, before the infamous chat.

And she let me come over last week but she played hard to get and kissed me but not much. I only stayed for 15 minutes.

In the chat she started talking about her ex husband and then said "she has feelings for someone" and I thought it was her ex husband, and she said no, it's not the ex husband.

So today I just asked her straight up what she meant and she said yes, she is seeing somebody. Which contradicts everything she has been telling me for the past 2 months. And then she started backtracking saying she is "all alone i have nobody"... and trying to tell me she only went out on a date after that night at my house when the ex showed up and I smoked weed.

So isn't this other guy her rebound guy? Because she knows I wouldn't allow myself to be the rebound guy.

I don't know. Perhaps it was you pouring your heart out, maybe it was when you disqualified yourself. Maybe it was previous interactions that you had where you drove for your personal needs even after her telling you that she wasn't ready for anything serious and you even agreed with her.

I'll put it this way, giving out a phony telephone number isn't the only way that women achieve a certain goal. In her case she needed a "jump" after her marriage ran out of juice. Instead of letting the battery recharge, you turned on the radio, the a/c, the interior lights and plugged a electric shaver into the cigarette lighter. A battery can only hold so much of a charge and it lasts only so long when it constantly being drained.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It should, I've distilled a lot of information from this site, care of some of our more experienced and knowledgable siblings,.

MNIN, are you listening?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Please just let this thread die I no longer want to think about it.

Thanks.

 

[DonJuan11]

I would like opinions from everyone..I just had this chat with a girl I like and thought I would post it. I really want to get with this woman I think I did pretty good..




MNIN: well alot of men are like that but I am smarter than that
MNIN: I meant when i said you make me feel some deep wonderings...
MNIN: sometimes i wonder if you may be...
MNIN: or could possible be...
MNIN: "the one"

Brutal. Sounds like you are the girl here.

HOT BABE: ohhhhhhhh
MNIN: your ex he really wasn't the right connection
MNIN all these things happen for a reason
HOT BABE: that is the sweetest thing I have ever heard

She is saying the ex gave her the most intense orgasm of her life

MNIN: we are all according to the course in miracles
MNIN: a bad person exists because life has something it wants us to learn
HOT BABE: that is true, but i don't have feelings for my ex it for another person
MNIN who?
HOT BABE: you don't know about it and it really is not important
HOT BABE: the whole point is I want to have feelings for another person and I am just stuck, I can't act on my feelings
MNIN: i am just tired of all the games and empty relationships

Get your chromosomes checked. I think you have XX instead of XY.

MNIN: i have my whole life to wait
HOT BABE: yes i know exactly how you feel
MNIN: i just want to find a soul connect as long as i can get the same back
HOT BABE: i just feel completely empty
HOT BABE: thank you for being my friend

Wasn't it Pink Floyd that said "The writing is on the wall?" Can't remember.

MNIN: well the feeling has to be both ways thats why you feel that way
HOT BABE: yes i know
MNIN: i am intense in my search for the soul connection
MNIN: i am tired of wasting time but i know i will find it soon
HOT BABE: i feel the same way tired to waste time
MNIN: hmmmmmmm you sound like me
MNIN: i like that
HOT BABE: Also I am soooo busy and have 500 things going on in my life that I really need to get over
HOT BABE: I am telling you I feel the same I am tired of all the games and I feel I am going nowhere I feel I am wasting my life
MNIN: i guess that possibly I am not the man for you but someday I know you will find it
MNIN: I may or may not be
MNIN hehe
HOT BABE lol
HOT BABE thank you that is really encouraging
HOT BABE I am going sleep now
HOT BABE we will chat more later it was fun talking with you
HOT BABE: nite

Explained to me exactly where you think she is willing to drop her pants for you in that conversation. Maybe it was here:

HOT BABE: Also I am soooo busy and have 500 things going on in my life that I really need to get over