"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chasing Money, Not Women

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Nothing wrong with chasing the paper product @TyTe`EyEz. At least with that you are building something for the long term (assuming you do not spend it all). No problem on taking a woman or a few along with you for the ride, but money and asset building should be a person's (man or woman) top priority in the 21st century.
Yeah, I meant that if he's spending all his money, then it's a long road.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jaymbrs

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I miss that life sometimes too. Well, not so much the way of life as that time in my life...in school, no real responsiblity, hadn't hit the real world yet.

Sounds like you're living the life, though. I.e. taking women as they come and handling your business the rest of the time.
They're just not coming like they used to since I'm not really showing interest nor taking initiative. I'm hoping with this next promotion I'm supposed to get I'll be content with my salary to the point where I'll pump the brakes a little on my career focus and do some traveling or something.
 

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It's really tough when you aren't a natural seducer. Working long hours breaks up your rhythm, makes you less interesting and well rounded, and suppresses mood and confidence. My day game has seriously taken a hit since I started working 60+ hours a week because my reaction time and follow up is delayed.

At the same time, @da dynamically used to say that "the master Seducer guy who works 80 hours a week and drinks whiskey all weekend in the club gets laid more than the 'well rounded' guy," and there's a lot of truth to that if you can compartmentalize.
Yea my mood has definitely changed since I started taking my job very seriously. I'm not as quirky as I used to be nor portray my confidence like I usd to and that's making me feel like a boring person. So I don't blame some friendships or dates to fizzle out quick these days. But it is catching up to me and I'm needing a change.
 

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It's really tough when you aren't a natural seducer. Working long hours breaks up your rhythm, makes you less interesting and well rounded, and suppresses mood and confidence. My day game has seriously taken a hit since I started working 60+ hours a week because my reaction time and follow up is delayed.

At the same time, @da dynamically used to say that "the master Seducer guy who works 80 hours a week and drinks whiskey all weekend in the club gets laid more than the 'well rounded' guy," and there's a lot of truth to that if you can compartmentalize.
Why the fvck are you working 60 hour weeks dude ?
 
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