I'm 31 and have been "chasing paper" for about 4 years straight now without really putting too much thought into my love life. However, I'm starting to reach a point where my youth is slipping right past me. I'm no longer as outgoing as I used to be, I no longer have desires to stay out late all the time, I've grown content with just staying in some nights. Overall I feel I'm becoming a boring person by focusing a lot on just grinding at work. My income is higher than it's ever been and I live comfortably however the lack of women is starting to really get to me. You guys know what I mean? I feel like I need to take a break from concentrating on work so much and concentrate on other things, including chasing women. You guys ever hit this point?
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yes you become boring by working on ur business 24/7
but u rather be poor funny guy or boring businesman?
first get some good income, then focus on being interesting, not the other way around
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OP, I feel you, but women come and go. Money, if invested properly can grow for ever. Money first, then things, then women. Focus on your purpose. Getting pvssy is not a purpose. It's a means to an end; literally. Women should complement your life (until they become annoying), not be your focus.
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No, its not. You're brain washed by the feminine imperative.
Do not fall for the oldest trick in the book.
I am one year younger and I pull anywhere between 5-8yrs younger. Outlier chick late teens from time to time.
Chase excellence not money,women or world.
Pursue self knowledge. Explore consciousness. Do a solo trip vaca. Lift heavy. Diversify.
mgtow is bang on about going your own way as in, not following the beaten path.
Off point with the pursuit of money,material, world etc. Its still the matriarchy. Its still the feminine imperative.
You're on point noticing your need to adapt and shift paradigm. Read a book. Go lift. Take up yoga and meditation. Yoga is full of women BTW.
Sure. Do pickup. Learn game. Checkout free tours in your city. Get wings fb inner circle but, go into hiking. Find a mentor.
Take up a rite of passage.
I smoked DMT about a year ago. Its like I watched the creation story and showered in love and gratitude returning back into being but, I digress. Its not like you should or you must.
Its just you're in a place in time whereby adventure is calling. You can feel it in your bones.
I am going beyond. I will do the Peru tea ceremony with shaman's next. Its not about a end point. Its about the starting point. Its transcending.
You're turning a page in the chsotrr of your life. Good for you. Embrace the ambiguity. Consider hiking or walks in nature. Something ridiculously silent.
Your next step will come to you. Good luck.
ChristopherColumbus
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Count yourself lucky. There are a lot of dancing monkeys out there chasing the floosies who are not giving a second thought to the future. Just stay open and alert and responsive to like-minded women that come along. Make sure to cut out any sense of self-reliancy with the use of porn also. This will naturally propel you toward the right kind of woman.
wifehunter
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Get a hobby.
I have a friend who is 45, owns 2 chiropractic clinics and has a **** ton of toys (nice house, pool, car, video games, pool table, shuffle board, etc) and this guy is STRUGGLING to find a decent woman. Goes on a lot of dates with attractive girls too. I get jealous because some are younger than I am but at the end of the day he finds that all they're after is his money. Don't get me wrong, he has his issues but man I would not like to be in his position. Dude admits to being lonely a lot and he gets depressed.
mrgoodstuff
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Steve Jobs was a kind man, died and lived lonely as fvck.
People don't realize is people stick with their cliques.
So if you separated yourself for elevation now your hugely successful she's not going to be your friend cause she never was. She's going to afmire your money.
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I pull women way younger than me. Just don’t include them INTO your world. Just show them a piece. I could get a new vehicle anytime I want. I drive a 1998 Tacoma in good shape and I have a paid for 2006 diesel if I need to haul something. So don’t buy anything. That’s my point. You don’t need anything to include women.
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As for your chiropractor friend, he can’t expect women to not be women that do what they are programmed for.
What’s the definition of a good woman? One who doesn’t have the feminine imperative to survive?
That doesn’t exist. A full time woman has the treachery depths that he is not prepared for and never will be. I use treachery in a loose sense. Recall the tale of the scorpion and the turtle.
What’s the definition of a good woman? One who doesn’t have the feminine imperative to survive?
That doesn’t exist. A full time woman has the treachery depths that he is not prepared for and never will be. I use treachery in a loose sense. Recall the tale of the scorpion and the turtle.
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Follow the money. If not, you will be sorry later.
As for the chiro bro, he's showing his cards. In the famous words of Kenny Rogers,
You got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
Know when to run..
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As for the chiro bro, he's showing his cards. In the famous words of Kenny Rogers,
You got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
Know when to run..
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Its why he's not a warrior.
He chased what society said. Be provider male. Chase money and women will come. What he fails to realize is that, they come to take. So, years of edu, med school, and back breaking work only for a woman to get instant status?
This is fools mate. Its like every other thread here about some cuck trying to be pretty. Its ****in pathetic.
Your mate would be better off living a life of debauchery then being a cog in the feminine imperative.
btownbuck2012
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I just turned 29 and can relate but all the people who I find myself being jealous of from time to time are either 1. In severe debt, 2. Have terrible credit or 3. Are shackled to relationships that are rampant with infidelity and/or resentment.
Don’t let our ultra toxic and very fake society make you feel bad because you’re handling your sh*t.
mrgoodstuff
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It makes you happier and feel better about you, that's all that matters.
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Are you saving your money? Are you investing it? If not, then chasing money is a trivial pursuit. One that will never end.
Why have you chosen to ignore women for so long? Superfluous money is good, but so is a woman's company. I don't see why you couldn't do both.
Everybody is looking for meaning in life, and everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Come to terms with this inevitability, and do the best you can.
From my experience, neither money nor women will bring you lasting happiness. By all means, enjoy both, but find beauty elsewhere.
There are so many things: family, culture, art, music, literature, nature, philosophy, history, weightlifting, whiskey, shaving, growing vegetables, fixing things. Use your imagination.
Life is short. Realize that and do your best not to overthink it. There's no right way, bro.
Why have you chosen to ignore women for so long? Superfluous money is good, but so is a woman's company. I don't see why you couldn't do both.
Everybody is looking for meaning in life, and everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Come to terms with this inevitability, and do the best you can.
From my experience, neither money nor women will bring you lasting happiness. By all means, enjoy both, but find beauty elsewhere.
There are so many things: family, culture, art, music, literature, nature, philosophy, history, weightlifting, whiskey, shaving, growing vegetables, fixing things. Use your imagination.
Life is short. Realize that and do your best not to overthink it. There's no right way, bro.
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user43770
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There is no way to insulate yourself from failures with women.
If your goal was to find a suitable woman for LTR, then I feel your pain.
Use your knowledge of the game to protect yourself, but find pleasure where you can.
Also, stay upbeat about it. You might just stumble into just what you're looking for.
Never stop thinking that the future might be better.
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I wouldn't say I'm ignoring women. More like just not putting in any effort to get them. Don't get me wrong, I still get laid here and there but it's not because I'm doing the approaching or anything. But it's no where near where it used to be. Women have just taken a backseat when it comes to my attention and effort because of my focus on my career. I feel the faster I can climb that corporate ladder, the better off I and my potential future family will be. I think of it as an investment. I just hit a point where I'm starting to miss my old life of going out every weekend and hitting it off with complete strangers without a care about spending money on drinks, etc.
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Nothing wrong with chasing the paper product @TyTe`EyEz. At least with that you are building something for the long term (assuming you do not spend it all). No problem on taking a woman or a few along with you for the ride, but money and asset building should be a person's (man or woman) top priority in the 21st century.